Eric Murphy Update

Whew! It's Been a Tough Time ...

2011-10-04T21:41:00.003+02:00

Can't believe that I haven't posted in my blog since last October ... then, I thought about what we've been through since that time ... [deep breath] ... Whew! It's been a tough time.

Lynne is much worse ... sad to say.

Big decision ... a really big decision was made. We did a trial run called a respite with Lynne spending 20 days in an Assisted Living facility in West Virginia where she has family. That was back in late February and early March. It was hard for Lynne.

Then, I took her back to Hungary for another MS treatment in Germany among other projects in what I do in Eastern Europe with my non-profit 501[c]3 organization. A married couple, dear friends, Bruce & Deb Heffner came over in April and part of May to help us.

Lynne became weaker with less strength in her legs and arms, but, Deb was a big help for me as we took care of Lynne with her everyday needs. Finally, I began to realize that I could not care for her by myself.

That's hard to admit ... don't like to say it ... it was really wearing on me ... in many ways ... physically, emotionally ... a draining experience in every way.

You know, 40 years ago, Lynne and I made commitments to each other in our wedding ceremony.

Despite my feelings ... I had to admit that I could not lift her up by myself and help her with the bathroom ... shower ... getting her dressed or ready for bed. Just getting her into bed was exhausting--lifting her legs with one arm while providing support for her upper body with my other arm.

Getting her into the car ... oh man! That is hard work. It leaves me gasping for breath ... wipes me out for a few minutes. Hard to explain ... trying to bend her legs at her knees while her legs are straight almost like two logs. That's not a very feminine description, but, this is what it is like. Slowly, the legs begin to release a bit as I "suggest" to her knees applying mild pressure that they need to bend. Then, getting her to be in a position in the carseat with her back completely against the seat ... pilgrim, it ain't easy to do. [Sorry for the incorrect English, but, it seemed to fit.]

A major, major decision had to be made. I could not do my work and care for Lynne 24/7. Yes, I know that she is the priority, but, I came to the realization that she needed better care than what I can provide ... by myself.

What about someone coming in to help me? Tried it. Helpful. Our niece gave us three months of her life to help us out. Foreigners can stay in Hungary, where we live, only for 90 days without a special staying permit like a visa ... and this is complicated to organize. Our friend, the Heffners gave us six weeks ... six weeks! That was huge! But, how many people can do this?

What about paying someone to come in to provide care? Good idea ... wait, I checked the price for this ... groan! Furthermore, finding someone who won't steal and/or who will show up when they are supposed to be there ... time to use that "ain't" word again ... ain't easy to find.

24/7 care? That would take at least five caregivers, minimum ... vacations, time off, blah, blah, blah. Cost? $6,800/month at least.

Guess what? It now takes two people to help Lynne. Remember that I wrote that even I can't do it by myself now and I am still fairly strong. So, two caregivers per shift 24/7 ... try $6,800 times two. Not gonna work!

Decision made [6/11] ... Assisted Living full-time long term care. My stomach was in knots. I felt guilty, I felt bad like I was really letting Lynne down. Yet, it came to me that I was doing what is the best for my wife considering her condition. It took some time, but, I finally accepted this.

How about Lynne? Devastated. Hard for her. Tough! Really tough! She needs prayer ... encouragement.

Deep inside of me I know that she's going to make it ... accept it ... make an impact on those around her. More on this later. I'll keep you posted and I'll try to do so without waiting another year.

Keepin' my chin up!

Eric

Lynne's MS Treatment

2010-10-10T21:21:00.002+02:00

Many people follow the progress of my wife's battle with Multiple Sclerosis ... 17 years now ... quite a long time. We just returned from her latest treatment given to her on October 3-7, 2010, in Edenkoben, Germany. The treatment center is in a lovely setting at the edge of a national park close to the border of France. The staff ... friendly and helpful ... we know many of them quite well in that Lynne has had more than 10 treatments there. The doctor is incredible. He really works hard to help Lynne and his efforts are greatly appreciated.

It takes 8 to 10 weeks to see how effective this treatment will be. So far, so good. Lynne reports an increase in energy though it is only a slight increase. Even a "slight increase" is reason for joy.

Why did God give MS to my wife? Don't know! I do believe that God is good, very good. He always does what is best for us even when we do not understand. This helps us respond properly. Otherwise, we would have more problems without a proper response. God is at work! We both keep this in mind ... God is at work.

Is it easy? No, it's not. Lynne's life has changed very, very much. She was a concert pianist, but, she realized that she cannot control her fingers to play the piano now. She stopped playing for our music group, The Hungarian Brass earlier this year. It was Lynne's decision and she seemed quite calm. That was impressive! I know that this is not easy for her, but, she can hardly wait until our next concert so she can hear our young men play their instruments. She loves them very much and tries to encourage them. Amazing!

Well, if you are a person of prayer, please remember Lynne Murphy in prayer that she will have a very good response to this MS treatment. I hope that I can give you an encouraging report in two months or so. Thank you for praying!

Eric

My Friend Iulian

2010-09-17T14:00:00.002+02:00

Iulian Avramescu is from Bucharest, Romania. I have a lot of young friends from Bucharest having met them when they attended our Bible School that we started back in 1994. Romanians are full of life. Actually, I could write about several of them and I might do so in the future. Right now, I want to tell you about Iulian.

Jack Wyrtzen, one of my mentors, taught me to "accept a person for who he is and see him for who he can become." Potential! Iulian has vast potential. In fact, he is beginning to realize his potential now.

Iulian and his sidekick, Marius Laciu, just left our home today to return to Romania. Yesterday, we met with one of his board members who is in Budapest connecting with Campus Crusade. We talked about a camp site near Arad, Romania where Iulian has led youth camps the last two summers. This board member, Phil Blackstone, from Dallas, Texas, was excited to hear about this possibility. Maybe we can lease this property so that Iulian can expand his summer youth camps.

Last night, we held a conference phone call with the owners along with two other board members who live in Dallas. It was a good discussion. No decision yet--it will take more negotiation, more talks and more prayer. At this point we do not know what the outcome will be, but, I hope it works out.

Why? A young man brimming with potential needs a place to realize his potential. This would be a good spot to do just that. I've been there three times and I get excited about this property and buildings each time I go there. Man, oh man!

Who are you connecting with to invest your time in them? Do you see potential in a person younger than you? Are you helping him or her develop their potential? Do it! Look around ... you might be surprised what you will find. Your time will be well spent.

I knew that Iulian would need some fuel in his tank, so, I asked him to follow me to the gas station. After giving him a little bit of money to buy something to eat on his return trip I gave him a big hug. I hugged Marius, too. I encouraged Marius to stick with Iulian as his assistant and to build the team. As I watched them drive away I found myself smiling and thinking, "This is money well spent, a good investment." My time with these guys was even a better investment ... listening, talking, counseling, encouraging, "seeing" the future and showing what could be done ... potential.

Potential!

Eric Murphy

Lifestyle Changes

2010-09-15T09:44:00.002+02:00

My father died from cancer. He won the first battle with prostate cancer in 2000-01. Bone cancer and lymphoma won the final battle in 2010. The last 10 years of his life were years of suffering because of cancer. Hard to watch ... I am sure that it was more difficult to endure.

My phone calls to my father in late May and in June were not easy. I could tell that his strength was waning. Finally, there was one phone conversation with my father telling me that he knew that he would not be alive when I was planning to visit him on his next birthday. He struggled to tell me this. Deep inside of myself, I knew that the end was near.

Cancer is a terrible disease. I had been reading various articles and books trying to find natural methods to fight cancer and I shared this information with my father. He decided to proceed with chemotherapy, not natural methods such as nutrition. I respected my father's decision and chose not to argue with him. He had the information and he made his decision. But, it made me do some deep soul searching.

I am not going to have chemo! No way! Did you know that 85% of oncologists report that they will not have chemotherapy if they have cancer? Hm-m-m!

Lifestyle changes ... I changed my routine. Earlier, about 11 years ago I stopped sugar. Good decision! Five years ago I stopped all soft drinks--cokes, et al. Three years ago I stopped using all sweeteners--the pink, the blue, the yellow, etc. Good decisions. Well, in June I made some more changes such as adding raw foods to my diet.

No, I am not a vegan or vegetarian. I simply increased raw food in my diet. Also, I accepted the fact that my metabolism does not process wheat products well. White potatoes is another culprit for me. Cream and milk ... I used to "love" this in my tea. All of these things made me gain weight! So, I stopped the "whites" and added raw foods. Bingo! I started losing weight!

Exercise is a great cancer fighter along with raw foods. Sit-ups and push-ups ... walking ... some Tae-Bo for cardio ... helped me to lose weight. More importantly, this is my plan to fight cancer! The extra benefit is the loss of weight ... now 25 pounds. And, I added 3 or 4 pounds of muscle because of the physical exercise.

Tell you what ... I'll update you in a few months to tell you about my progress. Check back.

Eric Murphy

The Old Silk Road

2010-09-14T08:26:00.003+02:00

I love history ... years ago I studied the Silk Road. Funny, how something that interested me long ago re-enters my life again.

First, there is news about China building a railroad in Iran with aspirations to go through Iraq and on to Syria. Of course, they are looking to extend their railroad from China and the route that will be used is the old, historic Silk Road. I think this has prophectical implications with Israel involved. We shall see. A railroad along the Silk Road would be huge for commerce. Huge!

Next, a people story ... 20 years ago there was a young man who was under my influence in a youth camp that I started in Hungary. 1990 or '91 ... can't remember exactly ... he made a decision that set the course for his life. You see, I am faith-based. It means that I teach about God and allow those who hear to choose to receive or reject the information. That's their choice. Well, he chose to accept this message and he embraced it in his life ... a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Cool!

Later that week there was a campfire and he made another decision ... to do whatever God would have him to do. It's a commitment and he freely chose to commit his life to God wherever God would lead him. Now, it does not mean that everyone who makes such a decision is going to move to Kyrgyzstan, but, that's what he did.

Kyrgyzstan? Yes, in fact, he went to Bishkek. Hey, there it is again, the Silk Road. Connection! Did I tell you that I love history? He's making history!

The Chinese are building an important railroad and my friend is building in people's lives. Action on the old Silk Road ...

Camp Monty in Montenegro

2010-09-13T08:57:00.003+02:00

One of the things that I do is put smiles on young faces. I love it! I started a unique youth camp in Montenegro [used to be part of old Yugoslavia] in 2007. My life was threatened the night before it opened, but, the situation improved each day. By the end of Camp Monty in 2009, parents were lined up to thank me for coming to their country and that their teens love the camp. Isn't that cool? God made this happen ... not me.

2010 was similar in that one mother thanked me for organizing Camp Monty each summer and that her son LOVES the camp. She even told me that she loves me and loves Camp Monty. Why? She sees that it does so much good for her son. Keep in mind that she told me this while waiting for the police to interview her son after his bike and a car were involved in a wreck. It happened the night after we had "all the watermelon you can eat" event after the evening meeting. Can you imagine that she would say something like this when so distraught about her son who received the worst end of the collision? I think she was glad that I came to check on her son and was trying to encourage him. He went airborne over the car landing on his cheekbone and temple ... ouch!

While I was talking with him, the 14 year old told me how much he enjoys the camp and how much he loves me and all of the camp staff. Incredible!

He is quite the "personality" in camp and he was greatly missed on the final two days of camp as he followed doctor's orders to stay in bed.

His mother attended the awards banquet two days after the accident despite her son not being able to come. I read a letter that he had written to thank everyone for Camp Monty 2010. Yes, she had some tears.

He's OK now and he can't wait for Camp Monty 2011.

You know what? Same with me--can't wait!!

Eric Murphy

Surprise Birthday Party

2010-02-12T17:09:00.002+01:00

Lynne really pulled one on me! Surprise! Birthday Party--should have expected it because I am blasting into my 60th birthday come February 15. But, Lynne nailed me a week early.

Oh, it was fun! Yet, it humbled me. Hard to explain.

First, I saw Ildko Dobos-Barbaric and her dear mother. Aha! Something's up. Ildiko's husband, Bela, comes in. We had dinner with them on Sunday and they never mentioned so much as a word about my birthday. How did I miss that signal? Yet, it was so good to see them. So, I thought this is the birthday bash.

Well, I was totally surprised when the waiter led us to our table. As we turned a corner there were two of the famous Bolyki Boys with their families singing "Happy Birthday". I was STUNNED! I had no idea. Lynne's face was beaming. She was in a zone--totally happy that I was surprised.

I greeted them one by one and noted that we were in a separate room at the Trofea Restaurant in Budapest ... lots of tables and chairs. "Hey, there's lots of tables in here," I said. "Didn't you know?" said Laci Bolyki, "There are others coming. Bali [his brother] is coming and others." Say what??? "Duh, I didn't know anything about this." Laci loved this.

Sure enough, Gyuri Bolyki and his family walk into the room and greet me with hugs and kisses, Hungarian tradition. Everyone loved the look on my face ... sort of "deer in the headlights" look. They laughed.

Then, my young friend, Laco Gaal, and his mother, Illona, come in. I just couldn't believe it! Laco got a kick out of it that I was so surprised.

Brass music! I knew the sound. The Hungarian Brass were playing a beautiful song, "Great is thy Faithfulness", in the foyer of the restaurant stopping all the action in the large restaurant with everyone turned around to listen. After they finished playing they greeted me and I saw all of their families or girl friends ... I was astonished!

[I checked my pockets thinking about how much money I brought along--how am I going to pay for all the this???]

32 showed up!

Lynne had everything organized including using her personal money to pay for everyone. Bela helped her with those details. What a woman!

We had a great meal. Then, the lights go off and an upbeat version of Happy Birthday in Hungarian starts playing and our waiter brings in a huge birthday cake. It had 4 "torches" on it blazing "fireworks" into the air with two numbers, a six and a zero, that were lit candles. The young children were watching with fascination and so was I. Finally, the firework display ended with each torch sizzling out one-by-one. Remaining were the two little numbers and I made a big scene sucking in air to blow them out. Big cheer when I finished my personal wind storm.

Then, I said some things in Hungarian telling my friends how much that they mean to me and how special it was that they came. I told them how happy I am, yet, I had an unusual sadness, but, it wasn't sadness ... I had some tears as I realized just how much that they love me ... it was humbling ... a great blessing.

Great conversations that I had family-by-family as I moved around the tables during the meal and dessert. What incredible friends!

Oh yes, the cake, after my speech I took the knife and did my version of a samurai sword cutting the first slice with a gusto. The kids loved it and the adults seemed to like it as well. Probably, a couple of parents were wishing that their kids had not seen this as the parents were thinking about their kids and what they will do on their next birthdays. Oh me!

Slowly, they left as I listened to some of the kindest things that I have ever heard. It was special, so special.

Then, Bali shows up with his laptop and some speakers. Balazs Bolyki is an incredible talent ... a gifted soloist and the lead singer for the Bolyki Boys, one of Hungary's most famous groups. Bali gave me a personal concert! I kid you not. He said, "Daddy, I have come to sing for you ... three special songs."

The first two brought tears ... so meaningful. All three were wonderful.

I looked at my cell phone ... 11:32 PM! Most of my friends stayed until 10:30 or so and missed out on Bali's performance.

The Hungarian Brass playing their instruments --- Wow!
The Bolyki Boys --- how many birthday parties do the four of them attend together? Not many, I can tell you. What a treat!
Ildko and her family ... we have known Ildiko for more than 20 years and she was a special assistant to me for 15 of those years.
Laszlo Gaal Jr--the son of the co-founder of The Hungarian Brass [Laci Sr., Lynne and I started this group in 1991] ... he is a special young friend.

And, my wife of 38+ years, Lynne Murphy ... isn't she special?

Thank you, Lynne! I love you!

Yes, I am blessed!

Eric

People: Value

2009-12-25T21:03:00.002+01:00

Telling certain friends that they have great value is incredibly important. The truth is that most people do not think that they have any value, or, at least, that they do not matter that much. Sad!

When I tell someone that I have noticed something special about them, he is encouraged. At first, he may struggle with this and may doubt the validity of my statement. I find that a warm smile and looking directly into his eyes helps to reinforce what I have said. Then, he expresses surprise or makes some statement of denial or self-criticism. I assure him that it is quite true or I would not have taken time to say it.

People have a great need for other people to believe in them. Making statements that emphasis value and importance go a long way to meet these needs.

Dear reader, the fact that you took time to read this tells me something about you. You have great value. God loves you and He notes your value ... after all, He gave His Son for you. That's incredible value.

My, you really are an incredible person!

Eric

Praying in Public

2009-12-20T14:54:00.002+01:00

It's my custom to pray before I eat a meal. I give thanks to God for the food. I do this in my home and I do this wherever I am.

Bowing my head and saying a prayer, silently or audibly, in a public place such as a restaurant usually generates various reactions. The deer-in-the-headlights stare, for example.

One time, a couple of people looked me with contempt. I looked back nodding my head and smiled. I felt sorry for the heathen people. Do they hate God or what? God still loves them despite their contempt.

On Thanksgiving Day, Lynne and I took my mother to a restaurant. We ordered a take-out meal for my father who remained at home. Naturally, I bowed my head to pray before we ate. I was stunned when a man rushed to our table to thank us for taking time to give thanks to God. He was very happy. What a difference from the other reaction that I mentioned!

I attended a conference recently where I was receiving some special training. I think that it is important to learn, to improve and to better myself. This was not a "Christian" conference, but, I found several Christians who were in attendance. Anyway, I was sharing a table with seven others at a banquet. When the waiter placed my plate of food in front of me I bowed my head and said a silent prayer to God. The person next to me noticed and she put her hand on top of my hand while bowing her head. When I finished, she whispered, "Thanks for doing this!"

So, I continue to pray before my meals whether I am alone or with my wife or in a restaurant. This has been my custom since I was 15 ...

Eric

Work Ethic

2009-12-15T18:23:00.004+01:00

I work just half a day.

Surprised?

Yep, just half a day.

It's either the first half of the day or the second half of the day depending upon the need.

12 hours a day ... that's half a day.

Why? Passion for what I am doing!

By the way, God is really into this matter of work. He's all for it! Take a look at God's work week--six days of creation and He rested on the 7th day. Seems to set a pattern, an example.

I have a great heritage in that my grandparents were hard workers. My parents have been hard workers. I am thankful for their example. It has had a profound influence on me.

OK, back to work! I love it!

Eric

Airline Travel

2009-12-11T08:44:00.002+01:00

Airline travel is a hassle. The airport security process is an aggravation. 9 people are needed to oversee this process at a small airport? Come on! This number does not include the ones snooping through my suitcase. They are one floor below running the x-ray screening process and opening my suitcase to check my vitamins. Yes, vitamins. Oops! My bottle of zinc tablets was left open. Nice! 200+ white zinc tablets in every nook and cranny of my suitcase. Thank you?

Take your laptop out. Take off your belt. Take off your shoes. Take off your coat. "No change in your pockets," snaps the lady.

With a dour expression, "Do you have any liquids?"

I am pondering telling her about my bladder being a bit too full.

No, I didn't say this.

I thought that I might have to empty ... oh, I better stop this. Sorry. Well, sort of.

Then, you pad across the tile floor to go through the x-ray machine. You are treated as though you are the country's greatest potential danger.

He wants to see my airline ticket. Good grief! I just showed this along with my ID to his colleague just a few feet back. Of course, I could have altered the ticket with my portable photocopy machine or maybe I talked with a mysterious person hiding under a table that nine TSA peope had not seen. Or, maybe my "Superman" eyes burned new information onto the ticket. Do they any intelligence at all? [Seriously, I have met some nice people working at some of these security locations ... none are located in New York or New Jersey].

OK, proceed to put all of our stuff back into the computer case and handbags.

Uh-oh, I had some of our magnetic calendars in one of our handbags.

"Is this your bag, sir?" [Total look of distrust and suspicion is on the face of the inquisitor].

"Come here for an inspection," is the command. My laptop is still out, my belt is now hanging around my neck ... I have one shoe on and the other is on the conveyor belt moving away from me.

"Sir, I am waiting."

Well, that generated a direct look into his eyes, "I am not finished. When I am finished I will be with you." My eyes did not flinch. Back to dressing and packing. He waited and he was not happy.

That made me happy.

Eric

Tribute to my mother-in-law

2009-10-17T04:09:00.002+02:00

Mrs. Ruth Persinger Stanley is now with the Lord ... in Heaven. After suffering with Alzheimers for quite some time she entered into peace on October 1, 2009. No more Alzheimers! Lynne and I are happy for her.

Yet, she is greatly missed by many people ... her husband, Jim Stanley ... my wife, Lynne ... Lynne's siblings, Patricia, Debbie and Phil ... quite a few grandchildren, great grandchildren and great-great grandchildren ... extended family members ... and by many friends.

Her life message is that of quiet faithfulness. She was always pleasant even though she was always very quiet and in the background. She was always very kind to me. I was blessed to have had such a wonderful mother-in-law. There are many good memories ...

My father-in-law asked me to speak at his wife's funeral service ... not an easy task to say the least. Sharing how I had "tea" with my mother-in-law many, many times, I shared with those who attended the memorial service how much she loved her family and how she faithfully prayed for them. That is a great treasure!

Her life message reasonates with certain people ... those who are quiet and laid back ... that a quiet person can accomplish much ... touching many lives ... because of love, faithfulness and prayer.

Eric

Daily Choices

2009-09-30T23:51:00.002+02:00

Daily choices affect our destiny! This is a truth that must be remembered throughout each day.

What we choose to do with our time ... affects the future, ultimately, our destiny.

What we choose to say ... affects the future. ultimately, our destiny.

What we choose to think ... affects our destiny.

Kind of scary, isn't it? Not really. One choice at a time, make it the right choice.

Eric

March - June Was a Blitz!

2009-07-05T21:41:00.002+02:00

March through June was a blitz! 5 times in Romania to teach motivational seminars, mentor some fantastic young adults and help two organizations prepare for their summer camps. What fun! Montenegro was visited as well. I have to write about the dinner I had at Dragan's home--it was a banquet. More on this later.

Then, our music group, The Hungarian Brass, had several concerts. It is a blast for me to play with these wonderful young musicians. They are so good. I am grateful that they are kind enough to tolerate my "performance" as a trombonist. Hungarians are very respectful toward their elders. I benefit from this.

There was more during the last 4 months--preparing a website for Camp Monty ... doing some writing projects ... gave a number of speeches and messages in various locations ... administrative work ... visits from dear friends such as Bruce/Deb Heffner and Jim Compton ... mentoring [personally or via email or phone] ... Lynne's MS treatment ... had a week of vacation ... preparing for Camp Monty ... organizing a work team for a youth camp site in Slovakia ... surely, I forgot some items ... it was a blitz!

Love it!

Eric

Age Served

2009-03-28T20:48:00.002+01:00

Friday night a couple of young friends, Alex Tudor and Ady Ilie, from Bucharest drove to Sibiu, Romania to bring me to Bucharest. Well, on the way to Bucharest we passed through some terrific scenery in the rugged Carpathian Mountains. One long stretch goes alongside a river with the road becoming a bridge for a while, then, back to clinging to the side of a rocky cliff.

Did I tell you about the trucks in Romania? Please! Two lane roads are the norm for this country. So, it means you follow trucks and you pass them one-by-one. Oops! My driver, Alex, saw a straight stretch and gunned it to get around a truck. What was wrong with this is that he passed on a double line. Yep, you guessed it! The police were perched on the only pullover that there was for miles. They saw us!

Pulled over ... waiting while the Romanian cops were giving my young friend a lecture ... my other friend was listening ... bad news! The cops were taking the drivers license away!! Not only that, there was a big fine, a very big fine. Devastating for a young Romanian worker on a small salary!

Then, one of the policemen came to our car and started talking to me in Romanian. I know six words in Romanian and he did not use one of these precious words.

"I speak English," I said.

He spoke to me in English and asked if my young friend was a safe driver. I affirmed that he is, but, my response seemed quite weak considering what had just happened. He wanted to know where I live and what I do and I told him.

He returned to the police car and told his colleague not to take the driver’s license!

My friend in the back seat listened to the conversation between the two policemen, then, he told me what was said. “Let him go! There is an old guy in the car and he is nice. Give him his license back because of the old guy.”

Old guy???!!!

Sigh!

Age was served again … I think. Sigh!

My young friends love to tell this story …

Eric

The Hungarian Brass in Godollo

2009-03-23T09:05:00.002+01:00

Godollo is a city rich in history. "Sissy" the queen of the Austrian-Hungarian Empire spent most of her time at her castle in Godollo. Though Austrian she learned the Hungarian language to the delight of the Hungarians.

Yesterday, The Hungarian Brass were in concert in Godollo in a new church building not far from Sissy's Castle. Beautiful church! And, our guys played beautifully! Man, oh man, it was good, very good.

Sounds like I'm boasting since I play trombone in the group, but, the truth is that I am the weakest player in the group. The group is comprised of young men ranging in age from 19 to 33 [except for me, ahem!]. What a great sound! Actually, the acoustics in this new church are very good.

The meeting went on and on as the people asked to play another, then another and one more. The trumpet players were starting to tire because some of our songs are quite demanding [high notes, fast, etc.]. But, they really did well. The trombonists were great.

We recorded some of our music in an album called "Faithfulness". Let me know if you are interested and I can ship one to you. Email me at ericwmurphy@gmail.com or ericmurphy_life@hotmail.com for costs and more information. I think you will enjoy! :)

Eric

My Mentor Taught Me ...

2009-03-20T19:57:00.002+01:00

"Accept a person for who he is and see him for who he can become."

Actually, my mentor told me this three times. I paid attention the first time. The second time really got my attention. The third time I was giving him some examples and he was smiling.

Jack Wyrtzen, now in Heaven, was my mentor in the 80s and early 90s. I was able to spend about one month each year for eight years. That was a treat!

The first time that Jack shared this principle with me was when we were riding in my cramped Honda Civic [they were smaller back then]. He was telling me about someone, suddenly, he nudged me with his elbow and said, "Eric, always accept a person for who he is and see him for who he can become. He went on to explain that we take people as they are right now with all of their imperfections. This is what we have to work with. Then, we look for their potential and guide them to fulfill their potential. I liked what he said from the get go. Yes!

We all have great potential. However, not all of us realize this potential. But, there is a second chance. God is gracious to provide second chances.

Lastly, let's think about using this great principle in the lives of others. First, acceptance ... in their present condition or maturiy level. Next, look for their potential and guide them in this direction with phrases such as, "You have a lot of potential ... I can see you doing this or that."

They probably will express their disbelief or shock. Be genuine and share what you see in them. Continue to encourage them often and watch their progress. It works!

I know, Jack did it for me!

Eric

I AM HAPPY!

2009-03-16T08:15:00.003+01:00

The other day I was at the post office and the postmaster inquired about me, "How are you today?"

"I'm happy!" I said with a big grin.

He seemed startled, "Really? Wow! I'm not used to hearing a response like this. You made me happy just saying it."

You see, I make a conscious choice everyday to be happy. There are various difficulties in life just primed to rob you or me of our joy, our happiness. I can choose how I will respond. Actually, you have the same privilege of choice as I do. Try it out!

OK, here it is again--I am happy!

Eric

Just Write!

2009-03-11T18:18:00.003+01:00

My, my! One blog posting in November and one in January ... none in December or February!

However, there are various things that I wanted to write. I had the wrong kind of thinking in that I thought that I needed to write something really great or hard-hitting or whatever. Maybe it was a mental block of some sort.

That's it! That's over! I am just going to write!

I did it! I just wrote! Actually, it really was great ... that is, if I can up my end of the bargain to write more often about the various thoughts that I have. Check back and stay tuned.

Eric

2009 Off To A Good Start

2009-01-02T03:07:00.002+01:00

2008 was a rough one! Investors lost 40% in the market here in the States. Hey, the Chinese investors lost a whopping 70%. It's a difficult situation everywhere.

A New Year gives hope ... a new start. Yes, there are more difficult days ahead according to what I read from contrarian financial advisors. But, for right now, we have a New Year on our hands. Let's make the best of it!

Eric

MAKING THE BEST OF BAD TIMES

2008-11-06T04:37:00.003+01:00

This is what I have decided to do . . . Make the best of bad times! I may not be excited about the results of the recent presidential election in the United States, but I have determined to make the best of bad times.

As I read the Book of Judges, there were good times and bad times, that is, good kings and bad kings. There was judgment either during the tenure of the bad kings or shortly thereafter. There was one of two men who would have a right heart toward God and pray. That's how to make the best of bad times. That's what I will do!

My primary responsibility is to live for God, to worship Him and to serve Him. This is what I will do. I have a responsbility to my wife and to my family. I have a responsibility to others. I will live for God and serve others. This is what I will do during bad times. I am making the best of bad times.

Eric

The Hungarian Brass

2008-10-26T22:04:00.002+01:00

Today, our music group, The Hungarian Brass, gave a rousing concert here in the town where we live, Biatorbagy, Hungary. We were at the Reformed Church [Presbyterian]. The acoustics in that church are very good. Therefore, our musicians played very well as they enjoyed where they were playing. My, what a good sound! Lynne and I have been talking about the concert and we are both very excited. It was fun!

We had four trombones [including me], three trumpets and a french horn ... 8 of us all total. Lynne joined us at the keyboard. It was a strong group with a great sound. Sounds like I am boasting, but, let me tell you, I am the weakest player in the group. It was a joy for me to play with such talented musicians.

Some of the people who came had never been to a brass concert before. One woman was worried about the sound thinking it would be overwhelming with so many instruments. But, she said that she was very pleasantly surprised that the balance was so good and that the music was so enjoyable to hear. Two other ladies echoed her opinion. It was fun to put smiles on their faces.

Did I tell you that today was a great day? What fun!

Eric

In the Trenches: Church Planters

2008-10-22T21:08:00.002+02:00

For the last six days I have stayed with two different couples who are church planters in Montenegro. One couple resides in the capital city, Podgorica, and I stayed with them for one night. The second couple lives in Niksic, the 2nd largest city in this country, and I stayed with them five nights.

Let me tell you, their work is hard! There have been several success stories. There have been some difficult experiences. This country boasts a population of 700,000 people mainly comprised of Montenegrins, Serbs, Muslims and a few other minorities such as Bosnians, for example. There are distinct differences with each group. The Muslims cluster together mainly in three cities. There is only a handful in Niksic.

Eastern Orthodoxy is the main religion for the Montenegrins and Serbs. They use the same Bible that I use. However, there are major differences beyond the fact that we use the same Bible.

People are people and they have needs. Families are struggling just to survive in that this is a very poor country. Apartments are cramped and there is a housing shortage. I learned that when someone builds a new home that he is required by law to build a three-story structure. The government knows that they probably will not house his family on all three levels, instead, he will rent out one or more floors to others thereby increasing housing possibilities.

Drugs are here. There is criminal activity although it is safe to walk on the streets day or night. Teenagers have mobile phones and most of them have music loaded onto their phones. If one is walking alone he is probably listening to one of his songs on his cell phone. They are into text messages ... all the time! Many of these teens have incredible pressures from drugs, from the internet and peer pressure to name a few.

I could say more about what I observed, but, after speaking almost one week there and trying to visit teenagers and families, I can tell you that the work of the church planters is HARD! It is not impossible, but, it is hard. A good work ethic is necessary. Optimism is very important. But, more important that an optimistic outlook is having faith in God. Let me re-phrase this, they have to have a big faith. Persistence is vital. Faith carries them through rejection and persecution.

I really admire church planters. I visited with a third church planter while I was there. He is doing a good work for God. All of these people are working hard. In fact, there is a fledgling new work being started in Kotor. I saw him for a few minutes and I encouraged him. I told him that I will pray for him as he starts the work there. His face lit up! He needs encouragement as he starts. He will face many difficulties. But, he is moving forward. My!

Love these church planters!! I hope that you do too!

Eric

Basketball Player in Montenegro: Finally Connected!

2008-10-21T22:27:00.002+02:00

It was a safe plane flight from Podgorica, Montenegro back to Budapest, Hungary today. What takes me 16 hours by car was accomplished in one hour and five minutes by flying. I am so thankful that dear friends provided the funds to be able to do this!

Many exciting things happened while I was in Montenegro as you can see by some of my earlier posts. Then again, I had trouble finding some of the campers from Camp Monty 2008. I walked and walked trying to find some of them. I tried to contact via email, but, that did not work. Then, I noticed on Facebook that two of the players were on this program too! I was excited! I invited both of them to add me as their friends on Facebook.

When I returned to Hungary today I checked my email and I noticed that one of them accepted my invitation. We could exchange contact information and I could see what his interests are. Would you believe that he recently joined a group "I am a fan of Jesus Christ". Blew me away!

He made a decision to accept Christ this summer at camp. We had some good talks. When I went to Montenegro last week to make follow-up visits I was wondering about him as to how he is doing. What he had on Facebook encouraged me! It really encouraged me!

So, I could not find him to meet with him, but, we connected today in another way. Isn't this great?

Eric

Political Unrest in Montenegro

2008-10-20T22:49:00.003+02:00

There is some present political unrest in that Montenegro officially recognized Kosovo just as the United States did so earlier. That did not set well with Serbia [old Yugoslavia]. Not at all! There was a big demonstration in Podgorica the day before I arrived and 30 people were injured.

In fact, the US Embassy issued a warning for Americans to lay low for a few days because the Serbs are still angry with the Americans for recognizing Kosovo. Well, guess what I did Saturday night? I was on the pedestrian street, the "walking street" and I counted 28 policemen. I thought something was up. Sure enough, about 60 or so Serbs were gathered near the government offices. Do you know where I was? Right in the middle of them!

For the period of time that I was there it seemed like a gab fest. Old friends were greeting each other and there was laughter with stories being told. Some young boys were blowing on whistles which seemed quite rude, but, not one paid attention to them. I stood there for a while observing what the people were doing. I do not understand a word of the Serbian language, but, the facial expressions were good. Finally, I thought it might be prudent just to move on just in case someone started yelling about the political issues and someone would realize that I am an American.

That was interesting! Then again, this just might have been my last "protest". No need to go off the deep end!

Eric

The Balkans

2008-10-19T12:47:00.002+02:00

No rental car ... I chose to be on foot while here in Niksic, Montenegro. Things look different when you are walking around rather than driving in a car. The car goes faster and you miss a lot of things. Walking is a slower mode of transportation, but, you see more.

Yesterday I walked from downtown back to the place where I am staying. I took the "long cut". It definitely was not the "shortcut"! There is a smoke stack at the steel factory near the pastor's home and I could see it from a distance to keep my bearings. I walked through a section of town where I have never been before. Along the way I noticed the majestic panorama of the surrounding mountains on all sides. Literally, Niksic is on a large plateau with mountains all around it. You can drive through a tunnel to start your way down to the capital city of Podgorica ... downhill the entire way. From Niksic you can drive to Dubrovnik, Croatia, through Bosnia going over a mountain pass or you can go over two other mountain passes toward Sarajevo, Bosnia or up to Serbia. The weather was gorgeous, so, the view was very nice.

Then, I looked at the ground alongside the road ... covered with trash. Used potato chip bags, beer bottles, cigarettes, candy wrappers and the ever present plastic bags were everywhere. Welcome to the Balkans! Gorgeous landscape, then, you look at what is beside the road ... why?

Next, I noticed many elementary school children were walking home with their backpacks. They were dressed in red [a predominant color here since the Montenegrin flag is a brilliant red color], blue, green, yellow and white. Wait! School on Saturday! Good grief! For some reason they had school on Saturday. I walked beside some of the children and spoke to them. Some know English and returned my greeting. Some were bashful and some were playful. One girl was kicking another girl, then, they just laughed and waved their goodbyes. That was different! Welcome to the Balkans!

Then, it hit me. Although I am personally disappointed with so much debris on the ground I am much more interested in the young people in Montenegro. "Clean up the inside and the outside will take care of itself," I thought.

Keep the focus ... stay the course!

These young people are so special. Gotta go! I am going to the sports complex to talk to some more! Bye!

Eric

Dateline: Montenegro

2008-10-18T10:59:00.002+02:00

I am in Montenegro right now. There is a new Update available if you are interested. Write me at ericwmurphy@gmail.com if you would like to receive the latest news that Montenegro Is On Fire! So, I am here visiting with teens who made decisions at Camp Monty 2008. I was in one home yesterday evening visiting with a 14 year old girl and her younger sisters all of which came to camp. Her mother was glad to meet me with the 14 year old, Dragana, translating for me. Then, the father came home from work. They were so hospitable!

On the way back I was walking and bumped into another 14 year old who made a decision at camp. She seemed so happy to see me. Likewise! She had a different glow on her face. What do I mean? She radiated happiness ... she is different ... she changed. This summer she seemed troubled and tentative. Yesterday? What a difference! When I asked her about her new faith in Christ she joyfully told me that she is doing great. She was vibrant! Oh yes, her mother was with her and she had a positive reaction as well. Her mother seemed so glad that her daughter has a friendship with me. Evidently, the daughter saw me before I saw her and she told her mother who I am and about the camp. This kind of positive reaction is very precious. I am thrilled.

Read the Update to find out what happened the previous day with Albanian soccer pros who came to the Montenegron soccer complex. TV interview and much more. Catch it in the Eric Murphy Update October 2008.

Eric

Blogged Down

2008-10-06T00:30:00.002+02:00

I took Lynne to Germany for her latest MS treatment. It was a helpful treatment. More on that later. It is not a simple matter to keep blogging while traveling. Furthermore, it is expensive to connect to the Internet these days. 3 hours for $12 in Austria! And, that was the bargain rate! If I used my laptop, I could get this "bargain" price. If I used their PC the cost was $1.50 for 10 minutes! Groan!

But, there was a bookstore nearby that offered 20 minutes for $1.50. The problem there was a slow computer.

So, I got blogged down.

I logged onto Facebook to give a quick report as to where we were and what we were doing. The high cost prevented much more than that. I am on Gmail and Hotmail, so, I checked my accounts to answer questions about Camp Monty, work teams for Slovakia, one of our missionaries in the States trying to raise his support, family items from our children or grandchildren, board members, information about upcoming meetings and similar subjects. So, my answers were quick replies.

Still, my costs were moving past $50 for the 10 days that we were away.

Blogged down! But, I am blogging again. Check back for some news items.

Eric

MONTENEGRO TEAM

2008-09-21T19:44:00.002+02:00

There is a group of young adults from Bucharest, Romania that I have dubbed "The Romanian Invasion". I gave this affection name when nine of them came to our home for an overnight visit. Think about--9 of them slept in our home--anywhere--everywhere--mattresses, couch, floor, bed, chair! It was a riot! They like to eat, too! They like to talk. The like to pray. They ask me to speak to them like I used to do in the Presidental Chapel at the Bible School that I founded in Hungary back in 1994.

You see, this is where I met most of them. They sat under my ministry for two years as students. We connected! Oh, did we connect!! They have so much energy and life . . . what fun!

When I told them that Lynne and I were starting a youth camp in Montenegro they wanted to join us. They are fluent in English and we were doing the camp in English, so, I quickly agreed. They were a big help! It would have been nearly impossible to operate the camp without their help. Skits, Drama, Games, Kids Klub Outreach, practical help and joining in any way that they could to help make the camp possible, they helped to make the camp a success.

Something happened in that camp in 2007! Some of them fell in love with Montenegro and its people, Montengrins. They became burdened about moving there to be missionaries.

Romanians moving to Montenegro to be missionaries! Wow! Can you believe it?

Well, in 2008, most of them returned to help again at Camp Monty. Hook, line and sinker! That did it! Three couples made known their desire to me to join Life Impact For Eternity. Here they are:

Tamas [Csika] Florin and his wife, Ana
Alex and his wife, Anca
Adi and his wife, Nicoletta

Csika [pronounced Chee-kah] is the director. They will help me with Camp Monty in the summer and do follow-up on the campers. They will start Bible Clubs for the youth. They will conduct evangelistic meetings. They will do Sports Outreach. They will become involved in church planting.

Since then, George Stanciu, has joined the team. I wrote about him a few days earlier in another blog post.

Lynne and I are excited about them! The Romanian Invasion is ready to roll. Well, they need their mission support before they can really "roll", but, they can hardly wait to move to Montenegro. Yes!

If you would like to help them please let me know. Email me at ericwmurphy@gmail.com or ericmurphy_life@hotmail.com and I will share more details with you.

Eric

Fall Came Early in Hungary

2008-09-20T01:08:00.002+02:00

Hungary moved directly from hot summer weather into cool fall weather. In fact, it feels like it is late in the fall season ... cool, cool weather with cold rain.

The weather seems to affect many people changing moods. Not for me! I enjoy the change in weather. The rain brings nourishment to the plants and to the soil.

It seems to me that God loves change in His creation. He gives us various weather conditions and He gives us the rising and setting of the sun. Yet, God does not change as He remains holy and His Word remains true and faithful.

Well, back to the weather report . . .

Eric

Another Csapo Family

2008-09-18T23:33:00.003+02:00

This evening Lynne and I went to Godollo, Hungary, to the home of Tamas and Agnes Csapo. Yesterday, I wrote about his younger brother, Krisztian, playing in our music group, The Hungarian Brass. So does Tamas! He is a great trumpet player and has played with us for more than 10 years. He was a young teenager when he started.

They have a little boy who will be one month old tomorrow, Benedek. He is precious! He particularly enjoyed being held by Lynne. He likes music! I sang to him and he enjoyed it. Of course, both Tamas and Agnes [Agi] are musicians. Tamas is the church organist and often leads the choir. Agi is a violinist. I am sure that they both play more instruments as well.

What a great time we had with little Benedek and his parents! I could visualize Benedek as a great musician. I finished our visit with prayer as I prayed for Benedek that he would put his faith in God at an early age and become all that God has planned for him. It will be exciting to watch it develop!!

Eric

Krisztian Csapo's Wedding

2008-09-17T21:56:00.003+02:00

Lynne and I attended the wedding of Krisztian and Timea Csapo. Krisztian started playing in our group, The Hungarian Brass, at age 15. It was easy to see that he had talent! Now, at age 24, he is a master with a trombone. He organized a 40 member orchestra for their wedding and wrote new music for them to play. It was so beautiful!

Great message from a pastor friend ... great music from some of Hungary's finest musicians ... great fellowship with friends at the meal ... what a special day!

Krisztian is the third oldest brother in his family which features six boys! Six of them! All of them ooze with musical talent.

It seems to me that this young man has incredible potential. He is focused and he has purpose. And, he is my young friend. What a priviliege for me!

Go get 'em, Krisztian! All the best to you!

Eric

New Member on our Montenegro Team

2008-09-16T16:51:00.002+02:00

Last Tuesday evening I picked up George Stanciu at the Keleti Train Station in Budapest. He spent the night in our home and we discussed him joining our Montenegro Team. It was a great conversation! I took him to the airport on Wednesday morning so he could fly to the States to begin to raise his support.

George is an IT guy [Information Technology] and will oversee the multi-media and the website. He has a passion to work with young people to make an impact upon their lives. He will be good for Montenegro!

Welcome George Stanciu!

Eric

Camp Monty a Great Success

2008-08-17T19:57:00.002+02:00

102 attended the banquet on the last night of Camp Monty 2008 with 85 of them being boys. Incredible! We connected with a youth soccer league in Montenegro that has a motto, "Soccer YES! Drugs NO!" Out of their program about 60 to 65 boys came to our Soccer Camp. Their directer, Dragan, wants to be involved in Camp Monty 2009.

Also, we had a great response at our Basketball Camp with 7 excellent players, ages 15 to 17. Two of them are 6' 9" and the others range from 6' 0" to 6' 5" . . . sharpshooters from the three point line . . . slashing guards . . . all of them can rebound and play defense. They are well trained. 5 of them made decisions during the week. What a response!

English language training and Crafts were well represented. In fact, there were 18 decisions total.

Would you believe that the crowd of 102 was the largest ever Christian meeting in Montenegro? This country has great needs. There are only three churches and four church planters are trying to get something started [not an easy task, mind you]. I am excited about the response. I plan to go there next month to visit those who made decisions and encourage them. Check back later for a report about the upcoming visit.

Eric

Commitment Starts With a Decision

2008-07-18T10:03:00.003+02:00

Commitment starts with a decision. Two years ago this month I made a decision to stop drinking diet drinks . . . Pepsi, Coke, etc. I have not had one drop, not one taste, for two years. Sounds like an alcoholic talking, doesn't it? Well, I am not an alcoholic.

Why did I stop? I was a Diet Pepsi-aholic! Too much! I kept reading about the side effects . . . phosphorus taking the calcium out of my bones possibly making them brittle. Oh yes, aspartame wreaks havoc with the body. So, I stopped. That was hard to do! I really enjoyed the taste.

Recently, I have been working on cutting out saccharin and aspartame. I was putting that in my iced tea or hot tea. Now, that's a new taste to acquire. I will keep you posted on how I am doing.

Why am I cutting out the man made sweeteners? I felt bad and wondered what was wrong. I am already starting to feel better. Hm-m-m! It just might be worth it! Once again, I will keep you posted.

By the way, I stopped sugar a long time ago. I wrote about this earlier. Let me bring you up to date on my progress. No sugar for the last 8 years and 10 months. Yep! Can't believe it, can you? Well, it's the truth! Really!

I find that if I make a commitment to discipline myself in one area that it helps me in other areas. I start working on a new area. Love it! It starts with a decision.

Eric

Would you believe $8.90 a gallon?

2008-07-12T11:52:00.002+02:00

Hard to believe, isn't it? That's what we are paying over here now. In Germany and in the UK it is more!

Approximately $4.00 per gallon goes to the Hungarian government in taxes.

The weak American dollar is wreaking havoc with our ministry budget. About 7 years ago, maybe 8, we received 310 forints per dollar. Today? 141 forints per dollar. We have lost 55% in buying power.

So, not only do we have to pay $8.90 per gallon, but we have less buying power. It takes many more dollars to pay, that is, to buy forints to pay for the fuel for our van. So, it takes slightly over $135 to fill up the tank.

Thought you might like to know.

OK, it's time to fill up the tank and drive 16 hours to Montenegro where I will direct Camp Monty 08. That will take about two tanks of fuel.

Let's see, that's $540 roundtrip . . . I am thankful for wonderful donors who make this possible.

Eric

Staying Faithful

2008-06-22T17:50:00.003+02:00

For several days I have thought about posting a new blog. What do I write? Well, there are all sorts of things I could write. Somehow, they do not "important enough" to write about. Then, it hit me, I can write about how important it is to just be faithful in what God has for me to do.

So, dear reader, that's what I have been doing. Staying faithful . . . continuing to do what I should be doing. That says something! So many people get off track which is unfortunate. Hey, I am still on track!

Just wanted you to know!

Somehow, some way, this piece of information just might help you today. Hope so!

Eric

"We're Eric Murphy!"

2008-05-12T13:38:00.002+02:00

Say what? This is what a young member of our Hungarian Brass said when we went to a church for a concert and evangelism. We arrived early for the meeting to get everything set up. The gate was locked, so, I pushed the buzzer to speak to the custodian so he could come to unlock the door. My young friend is always ready to help me in any kind of situation such as translation or whatever the need may be. When the custodian answered Laco quickly responded with "We're Eric Murphy!"

I was astonished! So was Balazs, the trombone player. The two of us roared with laughter and Laco just looked at us wondering what our problem was. He was just letting the custodian know that the music group has arrived. But, it sounded so funny to us . . . "We're Eric Murphy!"

Later, I told Laco that I would put this on my blog and he moaned, "Oh no!"

Hey, I kind of like it! "We're Eric Murphy!" OK, sorry! I will try to keep my pride in check.

Odyssey of my Suitcase

2008-04-25T13:43:00.002+02:00

Flying British Air from the States via London, I arrived in Budapest, Hungary on March 8, 2008. My suitcase arrived . . .

April 24, 2008

48 days later my suitcase arrived at my home.

Where has it been?

My wife checked with customer service and we learned that San Jose, California was listed as part of my schedule. I have never been in San Jose in my life! Did my luggage go there?

British Air opened Terminal 5 and have a chaotic start. But, my flight was on March 7 and 8 and Terminal 5 opened March 30 or so. More than 30,000 pieces of luggage piled up at Heathrow Airport and British Air shipped all of this luggage to Milan, Italy for sorting.

British Air turned to the Italians for organizational help? What? The Italians? Uh, no comment. Did my bag go to Milan? Who knows?

But, my suitcase arrived on April 24! Certain items were very important to me such as computer programs for my new laptop and a spare laptop battery . . . my toothbrush, my razor, you know, the essentials. 48 days!!

I was so excited when it arrived at my home. In my excitement I did not open to see if everything was still in my suitcase. Later, my wife asked me about my new shoes. Oh no, gone! What else is missing? I can't remember everything that was in my luggage. Hey, I slept since I packed it 49 days ago!

Thankful, yes, I am thankful that the essential computer programs arrived. If my new laptop crashes, I have the programs ready to re-load.

I look at my suitcase and I wonder just where it has been . . . quite an odyssey!

Eric

New Photo Gallery on the Website

2008-04-19T20:42:00.002+02:00

www.lifeimpactforeternity.org

Check it out! Click on Photo Gallery to see our "new look". Once again, my young friend, Laco, helped us with our website. There are a couple of things still to tweak, but the new look is exciting. Yes, I am happy with this! :)

Laszlo Gaal Jr. play the french horn in our music group, The Hungarian Brass. He is a computer whiz! Thanks Laco!

Eric

Couldn't Believe My Eyes!!

2008-04-13T21:10:00.002+02:00

Lynne and I arrived back in Hungary today returning from her MS treatment. When we crossed the Austrian/Hungarian border we just stared in awe! Couldn't believe my eyes!

No passport control!

No border guards!

No LONG LINES!

Just dropped down to 60 KM per hour and crossed the border.

I couldn't believe my eyes! I think my jaw dropped and I was stunned!

Hey, we remember entering Hungary in 1989 with unpleasant border guards with machine guns. We were ordered out of the car and to open our suitcases as customs officials pawed through our things. It was in the days of communism.

We remember leaving Hungary driving across "No Man's Land" from Hungary into Austria weaving back and forth as the road followed a serpentine path with concrete barriers on either side. We remember noticing concrete barriers that were spring loaded ready to shoot up from the pavement to stop a car that may have tried to go past the border guards or be suspicious for some reason. Imagine driving along and have something made from steel and concrete suddenly come up in front of you to stop you or to make sure that you crashed into it. There was no way to escape this because of the concrete barriers on both sides of the road. Talk about having a weird feeling as we drove through "No Man's Land". Creepy! Better yet, scary!

Even after Hungary became "free" the border guards were obnoxious at best. The guns remained in the open and a continual show of force was always present. The lines were so, so long. Many people pushed their cars forward to save on fuel. The process could take one or two hours, maybe longer. Slowly, ever so slowly, these conditions began to improve.

But, this improvement was a stunner! I couldn't believe my eyes!

What happened? Hungary is a provisional member of the European Union. The borders within the EU have been removed. At least, the frustrating border crossings have been stopped. Now, Hungary has this privilege. Can you imagine how the Hungarians must feel? They can freely travel to the West? Wow!

I was so happy for the Hungarians today . . . and, I was happy for us! No long lines! No border guards hassling us.

Couldn't believe my eyes!!

Eric

Lynne Received Her Treatment

2008-04-08T10:42:00.002+02:00

Lynne just finished her latest MS treatment at a center in Edenkoben, Germany. The doctor is absolutely fantastic! He is very personable, caring and gives top notch service. Lynne is tired after the treatment and really does not feel her best right now. But, hopefully, good things are happening inside of her because of this treatment. If you want more info feel free to email me at ericwmurphy@gmail.com or ericmurphy_life@hotmail.com or ericwmurphy@hotmail.com and I will be happy to update you.

Thank you for your prayers in behalf of Lynne. Keep in mind that it takes about eight weeks for us to see how well she responds to each of these treatments. The next one is set for September 25, 2008.

Eric

Quite a Blessing!

2008-04-02T16:19:00.002+02:00

This past Sunday I received quite a blessing! A young lady in her twenties came up to me after the church meeting and shared her story with me. She told how her sister came to our youth camp years ago. Her sister had been invited by some ladies from a local church telling about a youth camp where she could learn English, play sports and meet some nice Americans. So, her sister accepted the camp scholarship and came to us. This young teenager accepted Jesus Christ as her personal savior.

She returned home after camp and told her sister about all of her experiences. Finally, she told her sister that she now had a personal relationship with Christ and that her sister just HAD to make this same decision. [Note, I remember asking the young people to return to their homes to tell their brothers and sister or their parents about their decision to receive Christ].

Well, this young lady who was talking with me said, "I thought you would like to hear this story because I made the same decision that my sister who had come to your youth camp had made. I am so thankful that I made that decision. And, thank you, Eric Murphy, for coming to Hungary to start a youth camp and to have this possibility for my sister and me. Also, you might like to know that my mother has also made this decision. It happened about two years ago. It tooks us several years for my sister and me to talk to her about doing this. Finally, she made this decision. My father has not done this yet, but, it is good news that three of us in our family are now believers."

Wow! I was thrilled beyond measure! Quite a blessing for me!

That just makes you want to continue, to not give up, to keep sharing, to keep telling . . . YES!

Eric

What a Day!

2008-03-30T22:39:00.002+02:00

The April 2008 Update will soon be available in that the first draft has been written. It is now in the proof reading process . . . talk about vulnerability! :)

If you would like to receive the Eric Murphy Update write to one of these addresses:

ericmurphy_life@hotmail.com or ericwmurphy@gmail.com or ericwmurphy@hotmail.com

So, it means that certain news items or reports are only found on this Update.

For example, an article in the April 2008 Update is "What a Day!" and you can get this by subscribing to my Update. What an awesome day I had today!

Check back for some new blog postings as I have some ideas rumbling in my brain right now.

Until the next time,

Eric

Communication

2008-03-28T23:59:00.002+01:00

J.P. Morgan released its 2008 Global Internet Snapshot this morning.

Here are some highlights:

"Cell phones: For every 100 U.S. citizens, 77 have a cell phone calling plan. In Italy and Hong Kong, there are 135 mobile subscriptions for every 100 people. The global average? Only 41 out of every 100 citizens subscribe to cell phone service. Mobile phone users are growing at an annual rate of 27%... Indian cell phone users grew by 84% last year alone.

Computers: For every 100 Americans, there are 80 PCs. Global PC ownership is a humble 13 for every 100. Internet: 1.3 billion people now have reliable access to the Internet, thanks to an annual growth rate of over 20% during the last eight years. Yet global Internet advertisers spent only $40 billion last year, 6% of the total estimated worldwide advertising expenditure."

Very interesting!

Americans have the computers. However, in Italy and in Hong Kong there are more cell phones than there are people! Another thing that I caught is that slightly more than 1 out of every 6 people in the world have access to the Internet. That number will grow.

Despite all of this high tech we have not kept pace in communicating with people regarding their spiritual needs!

We have a message of hope . . . it is Jesus Christ!

Actually, He is standing by to receive communication from you . . . right now!

It's your call!

Eric

Making Lemonade Out of Lemons

2008-03-25T11:43:00.004+01:00

I was so pumped! Friday, March 21, I flew the Hungarian airlines [Malev] flight from Budapest to Podgorica, Montenegro. Most Americans do not realize that the Alps extend all the way through Slovenia, Croatia, Bosnia, Serbia, Montenegro even down to Albania. It was beautiful flying over the snow capped mountains to Montenegro. I was praying for small villages that I could see as I flew over them. The vast majority of them do not have an evangelical church!

Oh yes, I was pumped [as I call it, excited, enthused, you know what I mean] because I had big plans to visit the young people who came to the camp that I organized last summer in Montenegro in the city of Niksic. Couldn't wait to get there!

The descent to the Podgorica airport was a lot of fun as we zoomed over the tops of the mountain peaks, then the pilot made a tight bank tilting the plane in a 360 degree turn to have a lower approach to land the plane. This plane was larger than what Malev normally flies there as there was a mechanical problem with the original plane, so, we were flying a substituted plane. The pilot was making adjustments because of the size of the plane and the high altitude mountains. I loved it!

After getting through passport control and grabbing my small suitcase I rented a small Chevrolet called a Spark. Supposedly, five can ride in the car . . . I guess they were thinking of three midgets in the back seat. But, it was fine for me when I could move the driver's seat all the way back. I put my hand behind the seat to feel how much space there was between the front and back seats . . . about 2 inches.

The drive to Niksic was about one hour and I enjoyed the climb in elevation and enjoyed the view of the mountains. First stop: Hotel Onogost where we held Camp Monty 2007.

Walking into the hotel lobby I was greeted by the lady behind the reception desk, "Oh, oh, oh, it's you!!! Come in!! Come in!! You're back!! Are you bringing the camp to us again this summer? Please say 'Yes'!!" She introduced me to the new assistant manager as she told her a quick summary of last summer. Big smiles! She warmly greeted me and introduced me to her secretary. We set an appointment with the manager of the hotel to meet on Saturday morning to organize the details of Camp Monty 2008.

Strolling back to the restaurant, then to the kitchen, I found some of the cooks we met last summer and Mio. My, they warmly greeted me with Mio giving me a bear hug. Mio, a Montenegrin man, is a waiter and served us last summer. So, I announced to everyone that I had a song to sing for Mio and the others. There was much hand clapping and laughing. Then, I cranked up an operatic aria of "O Solo Mio" as I belted out the song loudly. The place came alive! Mio was in tears and everyone else clapped their hands so hard I thought that they would injure themselves. Another bear hug from Mio [will I ever breathe again]! Of course, I told them that we plan to come back for another camp, July 21-25 . . . more hand clapping and big smiles.

The value of relationships!

Oh yes, the theme is "Making Lemonade Out of Lemons". It had been raining during the week, but, it stopped for a few hours on Friday. It started again Friday evening and it continued on Saturday and Sunday. I went to the basketball courts, but the young people were not there. It was a downpour. The forecast called for rain through Wednesday, maybe longer. When it rains in Montenegro, it RAINS!

Well, my plans were drenched. I thought to myself, "I need to make lemonade out of lemons with this situation."

I worked on various details to organize for camp . . . menu, banquet plans, van rental to pick up the English language teachers and sports coaches, basketball gymnasium rental, visiting a possible indoor/outdoor site for our new program for this summer [soccer], etc.

Then, I thought about how some of my friends have done something called "Prayer Walking". The idea is to go to a town where there is no church and walk up and down the streets praying for the people. It is intensive prayer and it gives a burden for the people and their needs. Well, no prayer walking in this downpour . . . so, I slowly drove up and down the streets in Niksic praying for the people. As I thought about it I could not keep from grinning, "I am 'prayer driving'!" You know what, it was a very meaningful time as I did this for a couple of hours. I felt like I really connected with the people although I could only see very few of these people who were braving the elements.

So, I made lemonade out of lemons and got a lot done! I went down there brimmed with plans, but, God had other plans. Actually, I feel pretty good about my time there!

Yes, I am still pumped!

Eric

Long Day in Montenegro!

2008-03-24T18:22:00.002+01:00

Missionary church planter, Rick Hughes, gave me a place to catch some winks last night before getting up at 3:30 AM to catch a plane from Podgorica, Montenegro to Budapest, Hungary. I turned in my rental car at the airport at 4:30 AM after which I learned that my flight had been cancelled.

The new plan called for me to catch a flight on Adria Air to Ljubljana, Slovenia at 3:15 in the afternoon. LONG WAIT! A really long wait! Unfortunately, the airport in Montenegro is very low tech. Wait, check that, no tech! LONG WAIT!

Now I am in Slovenia and I hope to catch my Malev flight (Hungarian airlines) to Budapest to arrive at 8:30 this evening. The original flight plan called for me to arrive in Budapest at 6:30 AM! What a difference!

But, God had a reason for this! That's the latest with me . . .

Eric

Personal Upgrade

2008-03-20T12:45:00.002+01:00

Much is said about upgrading your computer, I-pod, or any other kind of equipment. This is what companies do with their advertising, that is, they create a "need" and try to make us purchase the upgrade or buy something new.

Truly, I am grateful for a new laptop that has been provided for me! What an upgrade!! I am thrilled and I am thankful. A sacrifice was made to provide this donation. I am excited!

At the same time, what about making a "personal upgrade"? Say what?

Well, I made a recent trip to the States for our board of directors meeting, a missions conference, two church meetings and did some planning with Lynne's family regarding the future [aging parents, mother-in-law has Alzheimer's . . . so sad!]. Fifteen day whirlwind trip highlighted [perhaps I should say "low lighted"] by a serious bout with a sinus cold and a horrible, deep cough!

When I returned home to Hungary I did not feel well. This went on for six days. Hey, what is going on here? This is more than jet lag. Time for a "personal upgrade"!

--I started my walking regime again although I did not feel like it at all. I walk between 2 and 3.5 miles a day. By the second day I felt better!! The last three days I picked up the tempo and I am walking faster which works my heart and lungs. This morning I felt like I was on a "high" and did not want to stop walking! It was invigorating.

--I read an article on the body becoming too acidic and that we should be slightly alkaline. I downloaded a food list that listed foods in both of these categories. Beef is acidic. Give me a break! Pork, cheese, yep, acidic. Groan! Alkaline--red beets . . . oh wow! I couldn't wait to run to the store to buy fresh red beets. Okay, I am becoming sarcastic. I started drinking three glasses of spring water with fresh squeezed lemon [pure water is better, but I cannot find it right now]. This cleanses the liver and the kidneys. I am now up to four glasses a day and will try to increase this number. I made some changes in what I am eating and I felt better in one day! No joke! One day!

--Would you believe 70 sit-ups a day? Well, 50 repetitions work the abdomen and 20 work the lower back. There is a connection you know. Yes, I started last Thursday and I am up to 70 right now. I am doing some other back exercises and I will add other exercises as I build up my strength. It really has helped!

--Power Time: This is the time when I read from the Bible and let it impact my life, my mind, my heart and my soul. I decided to do more with my Power Time. Also, I have a stack of books that I want to read, so, I marked the books with pencil to read 10 pages a day from one book to do a "personal upgrade" for my mind. I had been reading books, but, I made a definite list and an action plan to go through a certain group of books.

--Scouring for ideas: Some of my reading provided some tips from successful people who were sharing what they are doing on a daily basis. I made some notes. One writer reminded me about putting my thoughts into a journal. Ouch! I did that earlier and let it slide. OK, I have got to work on that area.

--Getting up early: I like to get up early. Recently, I started getting up earlier. I find it refreshing and I am getting more done.

There are a couple more things going on and I may write about them later. As I do this "Personal Upgrade" I find that I am doing more thinking as I evaluate myself. It seems that this is how to start the process. I have to be honest with myself, write down my evaluation and take action steps.

I love the upgrade!

Eric

The Old Dog is at it again!

2008-03-19T08:19:00.002+01:00

Some very special friends, Jim & Michelle Compton, have been helping our mission logging our expenses onto our accounting program. Jim just taught The Old Dog a new trick and I logged some expenses this morning.

YES!!

This was a big help for me because I need to know how to do this. Maybe this is simple for you, but I always had others to do these things for me and I never learned how to do this. This valuable information will help me both with the ministry and for my personal needs.

Thank you, Jim Compton! [I call him "Clutch" . . . but that's another story for another time].

Eric

Recent Meetings

2008-03-17T12:42:00.002+01:00

While in the states I spoke in two small churches in West Virginia. One is in Price Hill, a small village near Mt. Hope, WV. These dear friends had collected change [quarters, dimes, nickels, pennies] in a jar and donated it to our mission. $75 worth of love was in that large jar! Amazing! There is a potential missionary in that church who did a summer mission trip as a young teenagers last summer. She has a lot of potential. It was great to watch her as I spoke . . . she hung onto every word! She is the daughter of the pastor and his wife.

Then, I spoke in a church that is pastored by my father-in-law, Jim Stanley. He is only 84 years young . . . and still a pastor! His church is so receptive to our ministry and prays for us regularly. They are very excited about Camp Monty 2008 in Montenegro this summer!

The day after I returned to Hungary I spoke at the O Utca Brethren Church in Budapest. This was my second time speaking there this year. The topic of the message was on a difficult spiritual test, that is, it is a great temptation to respond in self defense when someone attacks you with false charges or undue criticism. This is very hard when it comes from a colleague, a friend, a fellow believer who is or has been very close to you. Jesus responded with silence with accused. How could He have such self control? Yes, He was God, but He was tempted just like you and me when He was here on this planet. So, it serves as a supreme example for me and for you. This kind of spiritual test is like graduate study . . . high level training.

The response was very good as several people told me that the message helped them and how they were were going through such difficulties. One person said he had never heard of such advice, but, that he now embraced it and would use it. Evidently, I have had to go through such attacks or I would not know what an extremely difficult spiritual test that this is.

One more meeting was with the young people and adults in Dunakeszi at the Brethren Assembly. That meeting was great! The meeting was last Friday night and they like to discuss the message after the speaker is finished because they have more time on a Friday night.

I spoke about Jepthah who had a rough start in life as the son of an adulterous relationship. He was rejected by his half-brothers who told him that he was not to have any inheritance. After he was kicked out he gathered together a gang that terrorized the countryside stealing and causing havoc. He was deeply hurt and he was taking his revenge out on everyone. Mr. Tough Guy with an attitude would have been an appropriate title for him.

Eventually, the nation of Israel has a difficult experience with a neighboring country threatening their extinction [sounds like today!]. They called upon Jepthah to be their leader in battle. After all, he had the skills for fighting! He came back and told them all what he thought about what had happened. "You rejected me and did not want me. So, now, you want me to come back and help you?" His bitterness and hurt was pouring out of him as he spoke.

Suddenly, he decided to pray to God to ask what he should do regarding this offer. He was a changed man after that prayer! It's a great story! He became the leader of the country and led them into battle with God giving them a rousing victory!

Jepthah serves a great example for troubled youth today. So many of them suffer rejection through divorce, death or abuse. They can be bitter and hurt others or turn their problems over to God. The difference between the two options is huge!

Two of the church leaders shared from their hearts about problems that they had experienced that were similar. People seemed to enjoy the openness. It was a special meeting!

Eric

FLASH ADDED TO OUR WEBSITE

2008-03-16T22:50:00.002+01:00

Laszlo Gaal who plays the french horn in our music group, The Hungarian Brass, just added Flash to our website. www.lifeimpactforeternity.org . . . check it out! I am so excited about this! Thanks Laszlo!!

Actually, he is presently working on adding flash to the Photo Gallery section on the website. That will be an added benefit providing many more pictures and making them come alive.

I am thankful for Barb Nesbitt's help to develop our website in 2004. She did such a great job as the webmaster. She decided to get her doctorate in education, so, she had to give up a few things. I have been learning to maintain the website and Laszlo [Laci] has been helping me. Now, the flash has been added. Wow!

Eric

March 2008 Update

2008-03-05T05:30:00.004+01:00

The March 2008 Update is being sent by email. It will soon be loaded onto my website: http://www.lifeimpactforeternity.org/

February was a great month! Great Board of Directors meeting--really good! Great meetings in several churches in Hungary, Romania and Florida! The Hungarian Brass played for a meeting at the International Congress on Revival at the Hilton Hotel in Budapest. I spoke at a wedding in Bucharest and witnessed a beautiful wedding of two young friends, Ady & Nicoleta Ilie.

There was a conversation in February that will have a great impact upon Montenegro in the future. More about this in a future blog posting . . .

Then, there was this sinus problem in February . . . ugh! It developed into a deep chest cold and hung on for over a week . . . another ugh! But, I am getting better now.

Evangelism at a Wedding

2008-02-18T08:16:00.002+01:00

You read it correctly! I was the speaker at a wedding in Bucharest, Romania on Saturday, Feb. 16. The young couple are Christians, but the majority of the members of their families are not. So, they asked me to do evangelism because they love their families very much. One member of the family made a decision for Christ! Wow!

It was a beautiful wedding! Our young friends, Adrian and Nicoleta Ilie, are now husband and wife. They are a wonderful young couple and we are very happy for them. They are serving as missionaries in Romania to teenagers. May God bless them!

By the way, on the trip to Bucharest I enjoyed another birthday and received many email birthday greetings. So special!

Eric

What Am I Into Right Now?

2008-02-08T22:37:00.000+01:00

I am focusing on several things. I am gearing up to do some writing. More on this later.

I am walking about 3.5 miles a day, taking vitamins. I am just about ready to start doing some exercises . . . takes me a while to get in the rhythm for doing this.

Of course, there are daily disciplines . . . reading the Bible, praying, reading books, etc.

I am speaking often in Hungarian churches; mainly the Brethren churches right now . . . messages to encourage the believers. It seems there is a great need for this. So, study time is necessary to prepare messages.

Behind the scenes ministry counseling/advising/encouraging several young adults on a daily basis or weekly basis soaks up quite a bit of my time. This is SO important. Young adults need encouragement . . . someone to believe in them. They have so much potential!

Taking over our website has taken a chunk of time and there is quite a learning curve. But, it feels good to have the website up to date. My blog site is an avenue to communicate and provides opportunity for ministry as well as informing donors/friends as to what I am doing or thinking. I want to add video to my blog site.

I am also quite active on Facebook, a social utility on the internet, which builds relationships. It seems to me that Facebook is a bridge to the future to minister to Generation X-ers or Millennials depending upon who uses which term. Ages 15 to 35 . . . want to do something, will sacrifice to do it and they believe that they can make a difference. We should capitalize on this and immobilize them . . . back to my earlier statement about me counseling young adults.

In addition, [as well as subtraction, division and multiplication] there is a lot to look after regarding a 501[c]3 organization [our mission]!

Camp Monty 2008, the youth camp in Montenegro, is in the process of being organized such as recruiting basketball coaches/players, English language teachers, somebody to teach crafts and starting to raise scholarships for needy campers.

Actually, there are a number of projects that holds my attention:

--Organizing meetings/concerts for The Hungarian Brass
--Another recording [it's a surprise!]
--Working on our support [the weak dollar is hurting the missionaries all over the world]
--Calendar Planning
--Recruiting work teams to renovate a conference center in Rackova Dolina, Slovakia for this fall
--Website improvement with the help of Laci Gaal Jr.
--Checking out Constant Contact or iContact or some similar program for bulk email for the Eric Murphy Update
--There’s more, but, the list is long enough for this blog posting. Gotta get to work!

Eric

Young Friend Returning to Hungary

2008-02-07T10:11:00.000+01:00

The Hungarian Brass is blessed with some outstanding young men! One of them has been away for six months working on a cruise ship to earn money so he can get married later this year. Krisztian [Christian, in English] Csapo departs Valparaiso, Chile, on February 25, to return to Budapest. He is an incredible trombonist! More than this, he is wonderful young man who has a heart for God. Christian is a christian! I was reading his blog and looking at his pictures noting his many experiences in the Meditterean area, then in South America. He is now playing his trombone in a band on The Splendour of the Seas cruise ship. It will be SO good to have him back!

Eric

Eger, Hungary [Meeting with a special man]

2008-02-04T12:41:00.000+01:00

Eger is located in Northern Hungary near the main highway between Budapest and Miskolc. There is an old fortress there that was very important in the history of Hungary as they fought off the onslaught of the Turks. We drove two hours from our home to go to a Brethren Church to minister. Not a cloud in the sky, it was a gorgeous day. It was exciting to see the fortress again, but it was more important to visit with this church and a dear friend, Janos Soproni.

We first ministered there in 1991 and they spoke of this in the church service. Two of the adults, a married couple, in their 30s gave testimony of how they experienced our youth camp that summer in 1991 and that they enjoyed it very much. Both said it was life changing. The wife told how she won Eric's Run on two occasions. That brought back memories. Somehow Eric tortured his body making himself run that 1.5 mile race with the campers at 7 AM every Monday morning during camp for 15 summers! Just thinking about this made me groan with pain! Yes, I am Eric. I am the one who came up with that idea.

I looked at their two sons, Dani and Zozo, and saw so much potential! They are precious little boys and this couple is doing a good job raising them in the church.

They joined us for lunch at a restaurant after the church meeting and the meal was hosted by Janos and Maria Soproni. I sat next to Janos and enjoyed the fellowship with him. He is 76 now and has five major ministries or jobs right now! What an example! He is a musician and a song writer with many of his songs published in Hungary. In fact, he published them! His song books are used all across the country. He is still active as the church leader, very involved in a prison ministry, still publishing books and music, teaches guitar in a public school to supplement his retirement income and he mentioned something else that I cannot remember. I was tired enough after hearing about the first four tasks!

There are a group of Hungarians that are movers and pushers in the country in Christian circles. They have vision coupled with a dynamic work ethic. Janos Soproni is one of them. I know the rest of this group and could list some more names. All of them are well over 60; the majority are over 70 years of age!

As I was sitting in the church meeting during the first part of the worship service I thought about Janos and I wondered who would replace him when that time comes. It is a daunting question! Who will replace these gallant men in Hungary? One of them is now 80 and he recently started pastoring another church! He has built up three strong churches in the country and he is doing it again! Another is 81 and he is pushing the development of a small Christian conference center and seeking supporters. They finally convinced him not to drive anymore because his knees have worn out and he cannot use the foot pedals. By the way, Hungary is a safer country after this decision. Now, he gets people to take him where he needs to go as he continues to serve. Amazing!

Janos has a great sense of humor, so, the fellowship was excellent. He knows how to work and he has accomplished a lot in his lifetime. Yet, he spoke of new projects and new plans. What a blessing to have such a friend!

Eric

Oil Change: Lesson in Economics

2008-02-01T18:21:00.000+01:00

Today I took our ministry van to get the oil changed. Jiffy Lube has not started a franchise in Budapest, Hungary, so the prices over here are substantially higher. Let me tell you, the price of oil is higher than the price of gasoline! [See my blog post on January 19, 2008]. Whew! I paid 23,000 forints for an oil change.

If 165 forints equals one dollar, then I paid $139.39!! Almost $140 for an oil change! Since it is synthetic oil it is goof for 10,000 kilometers or 6,250 miles. That makes me feel better! Well, not a whole lot.

By the way, some months ago the dollar was stronger with 200 forints equalling one dollar. That would make the oil change at that time ONLY $115.

I know that this is a blog, not a "rant". So, let me end with a report that the relationship that I am building with the car repair shop owner is developing quite well. He knows, to a certain extent, what I am doing in this section of the world. He does not have a relgious affiliation and was a bit gruff when I first started going to him three years ago and seem to be a closed person. But, this has changed and he is open for conversation. He smiles at me now and wants to learn some English. He checks my van carefully to make sure that it is running well. He is a good man. Furthermore, the three men who work in his shop are becoming more friendly with one of them being particularly interested in talking with me. So, God is at work and maybe there will be an opportunity for a serious conversation where I can help one or all of these men to start a personal relationship with God. If that would happen, I suppose that $140 would be well spent!

Eric

Meeting in Biatorbagy

2008-01-28T21:20:00.000+01:00

Yesterday was a special day! The Brethren Church in Biatorbagy has a special place in my heart and it is always a joy to go there. I first spoke there in March, 1990. I remember that day for several reasons, but, one really sticks out in my mind . . . there were hardly any cars on the road that Sunday morning! My wife and I live in Biatorbagy now and we can tell you that there are many, many cars here now! What a difference!

Some of the same people who were there in 1990 still attend at the present time. My translator was a boy back in 1990. Yesterday, he stood beside me to translate and I enjoyed serving together with him. In fact, he was saved under my ministry at the youth camp in Hungary! So were two others from his family, an older brother and his sister. Yes, it was a great joy to serve with Peter Csikos.

Peter wrote to me tonight that people gave testimony in the evening meeting [I spoke in the morning meeting] that the message was very good and very clear. Yes, I could have given the message in Hungarian, but, it probably was more understandable with Peter's translation. Sometimes I preach in Hungarian and sometimes I preach in English. It was very interesting to watch some of the young adults in the meeting who speak English to a certain extent. They would hear what I said in English and show a response that they understood with their smiles or nodding their heads in agreement. This seemed to make the ones who speak only Hungarian wanting the translation to be given very quickly so they could know what was being said. Therefore, the translation can work in my favor, so to speak.

Well, God used the message as I spoke from my heart on I Samuel 22:2 where David gathered a group of misfit soldiers and built them into mighty men of valor [I Chronicles 11:10]. God often uses failure to make us more useful. David was told by Samuel that he would become the next king, but David had to wait for a few years. Not easy! Not at all! Instead of letting this time of frustration and failure get to him he turned a group of 400 down and out soldiers into an elite group, one of the best armies ever! When he was finally installed as the king David had a loyal army around him. At that time, looking back on his days in the caves hiding from a jealous King Saul, it finally began to make sense. God was using many who had experienced failure to become more useful. We have to keep our perspective when we are in the difficult experiences in life when everything we do seems to end up in failure. God is at work in what we call "failure".

Failing does not make us failures! Rather, it is an experience and we learn from this. Then, God uses us in a greater way!

Eric

Teaching The Old Dog New Tricks

2008-01-24T01:35:00.000+01:00

Ever feel like this? You know, like an old dog trying to learn new tricks? Well, if you are in your 20s or 30s, maybe you never feel this way. But, I will say that sometimes the "old dog" learns a couple of new tricks!

One of our supporters set up our website [www.lifeimpactforeternity.org]. Last year, she decided to get her doctorate degree in education and had to turn over the website to . . . you guessed it, the "old dog" . . . me! She wrote some instructions and I stared at them quite a while. Something was wrong because what she wrote just wasn't working for me. Then, we connected and she set up Lynne's laptop so it could manage the website through Microsoft Front Page 2003. Well, that made a big difference!

God helped me and I learned how to upload new information to the calendar page on the website. Then, I tackled other pages including Prayer Needs, Ministry Needs, Projects . . . I was on a roll! I let out a war whoop that absolutely frightened my dear wife one night. I was so excited and made it known. I really did not mean to scare her. After the shock wore off she cheered for me!

Then, the next brick wall loomed . . . the archive file for the old Updates was in a big mess! Another email message from Barb Nesbitt, former webmaster, and I tackled this situation which looked more like a huge mountain instead of a brick wall. Five hours later I gave praise to God for His help because the archives are up to date! [I toned down the rain dance war whoop to protect my precious wife from heart failure]. But, when I told her she squealed with excitement as she was happy for me. [I think she really was surprised that the "old dog" made it this far]. Well, you and I both know that God helped me, so He gets the credit! Seriously!

Now, if I could just figure out what Barb wrote regarding uploading/changing pictures on the website . . .

Barb Nesbitt has been a terrific help and I am very thankful for all that she did to help us with the website! Thanks, Barb! Go get your doctorate!! [She has an A average so far . . . so smart!]

A Hungarian friend who is a member of The Hungarian Brass [our music group], Laci Gaal Jr. helped me recently with the website. We met one time regarding making hyperlinks for the archived updates. This "old dog" just sat there and watched the young pup moving around on the computer with blazing speed. Thanks, Laci, for your help! Hey, hey, Laci, can we meet to talk about uploading pictures to the website? And, I want to add flash! And, what about uploading videos?

The "old dog" tries to learn another new trick!

Eric

Suffering

2008-01-21T05:53:00.000+01:00

Serving in two churches on Sunday, January 20, 2008, the theme in both was similar: Suffering. This topic is not necessarily a popular subject, but it seemed to strike a chord with people in both meetings. The first meeting was at the great O Utca Brethren Church in Budapest. This church has a storied history and the founders suffered much during the communist years to insure that this church would have an existence. I focused on Psalms 105 where the writer referred to the suffering of Joseph who was sent ahead to be prepared for leadership in Egypt. The shackles bruised his ankles and wrists and the chain from the shackle around his neck connecting to the shackles at his feet was short making him stoop. 13 years of such suffering for false charges is Leadership Preparation at a graduate level! Not many would come out of this without a hint of a desire to seek revenge, but this was Joseph.

When Joseph became the "prime minister" and had his brothers in front of him he could have crushed them. Instead, he uttered an amazing statement, "You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good that many people would be saved." His brothers had literally sold Joseph into human slavery! Talk about a dysfunctional family! Somehow Joseph saw beyond his present problems while he was in prison and saw the bigger picture. God used this man to save the Israelites from starvation during a horrible famine. Joseph was humbled by the chains of his incarceration and became God's man for a unique time in history.

There are many Josephs in the world today either being prepared for service or serving because God has already prepared them for such a time as this. Present day examples range from the tribal warfare in Kenya to the Taliban abusing church planters in Pakistan or the Hindus burning churches in India . . . all happening at the present time.

Yes, I am impressed by the life of Joseph!

The evening meeting was at the Reformed Church [Presbyterian] here in the town where we live, Biatorbagy. It was the beginning of the national prayer week. I spoke from Luke 18 about the widow who appealed to the wicked judge for a ruling only to be rebuffed again and again. Finally, he gave her a ruling to help her after she repeatedly came to him so as to get rid of her. She suffered greatly, but, finally received help. Jesus used this to teach us how to pray during our suffering. Pray day and night, keep praying! Eventually, there will be an answer.

It was a great day! Oh yes, we had lunch in the home of some young people whom we have known since they were children. Their parents were not at home as they were away celebrating their wedding anniversary. Still, the three children [one of them married], early 20s and one a teenager, invited us for a meal. The youngest daughter prepared a delicious meal and we all had a great time of fellowship. Before we left we had prayer together with all six of us praying one by one. That was special! No, that was not a time of suffering, rather, it was a time of joy!

Eric

Cost of Fuel in Hungary

2008-01-19T22:05:00.000+01:00

Today my wife and I made a quick run to the grocery store to pick up some items for breakfast tomorrow, some light bulbs, etc. On the way out from the store I stopped at their "discount" service station. Note the word "discount". It may cost a penny less there, for example. Well, my tank had just slightly over 1/4 of a tank when I stopped to fill up. I noticed a higher amount for diesel, about 30 forints more per liter than in early October. Yes, 30 forints more. 14,360 forints later . . . I have a full tank of about 65 liters of diesel fuel. Friends, Romans and Countrymen, I just paid $87.03 for my fuel!! Yes, you remember reading that I had slightly more than 1/4 of a tank when I started. I bought 48.53 liters. My tank holds 65 liters.

While I was standing there filling up the tank I was doing some math in my mind. I rounded off the cost per liter at $1.80. At home with a calculator I came up with $1.78. The forint to the dollar is 165 forints equals $1. You may see 170 right now, but there are fees to pay and the reality is about 165. So, 1 gallon equals 3.785 liters. Therefore, at the present time the cost of fuel in Hungary is $6.74 rounding off $6.7373737373 . . . [ad nauseum, quite frankly, a lot of nauseum]

In September [175 forints to $1] we were paying 265 forints per liter . . . which was already a whopping $5.72 a gallon.

Anyway, our fuel costs coupled with a weaker dollar has us paying $1.02 more per gallon [$5.72 jumping up to $6.74 per gallon] since September 30, 2007!

Now, what will it cost to fill the tank up at one time? 65 liters X $1.78 = $115.70 . . . that would take a Ben Franklin and an Andrew Jackson [almost]. There would not be even one Abe Lincoln left in change, only 4 George Washingtons.

I thought I would post this on my blog . . . somehow, this helps me.

Eric

Surprise Attack!

2008-01-16T23:18:00.000+01:00

Someone, a fellow Christian leader, wrote to me that he had a surprise that he was not expecting. It was an attack! Not a physical attack, instead it came from close friends. Stunned, my friend could not believe his ears as he listened to the stinging words of rebuke and rejection. In fact, it happened in front of other people. My friend is a Christian leader and the attack came from fellow Christians. The corporate world or the work place is not the only place where such attacks occur.

What do you do when you suffer such pain?

God blesses waiting. Just wait. "What? Are you crazy?" you might say. Seriously, just wait to see what happens. It is a test for you and if you just wait quietly you will pass the first part of the test. [I think my friend was not expecting this kind of advice from me]. It hurts . . . sure it does, this is a natural feeling. When an attack comes from someone who is close to you, it hurts. But, this is a bigger test. Really big! It means that God loves you very much. I am serious. It hurts our pride. It can make us want to take revenge. It just hurts your pride and it is a surprise for you. You weren't expecting this . . . from friends . . . from people that you have loved and helped. Why is this happening? Back to the part about waiting. If you wait and pray for the ones who have hurt you, then you give the problem to God. It is too big for you and you do not understand and you are hurting. Give it to God. Literally, use your hands while praying . . . close your hands tight like you are trying to keep the problem . . . then open your hands like you are giving the problem to God and actually say this in your prayer. Keep your hands open and don't say anything for a while. Then, you may have the beginning of a new peace in your hearts. After a minute or so in prayer say something like, "There, now you have this problem, God. It's yours. Help these dear brothers and sisters because I love them and I know that You love them." If you feel tears coming, let them come. This is a release and somehow it is a way to worship. You asked God's help and gave Him the problem. He is going to do something about it in His perfect time. He will deal with the people who have mistreated you. You don't have to worry about it anymore because God is taking care of things.

Next step, keep waiting in silence . . . don't say anything bad about these people to anyone. Say good things. Pray for them in love every day, more than one time each day. If the painful experience comes to your mind, pray for them. "Oh, dear God, help these dear people, my friends. I love them." Maybe think about a way to show kindness to them . . . take them some tasty dessert or chocolates and a simple flower for the wife, not something expensive, instead something that is simple. Spend too much money and people become suspicious and you lose the effect of the gift. When you give it to them say this, "I was just thinking about you and wanted to give you something and we want you to know that we love you in the Lord." That's enough! Smile warmly and slowly walk away. Before you leave the area where they are standing glance back at them and give a warm smile and a wave of the hand. Let me tell you, this will be like heaping coals of fire upon their heads. It is a positive action, a kind action which helps them as well as you! Makes you feel better! Makes them think! They will not be expecting this from you and it will surprise them. Most people expect revenge, angry words, pouting, cutting off all lines of communication . . . all are negative reactions and will not accomplish what you really want to have happen.

God is at work. Next? Keep waiting, yes, this is hard, but it is of God. Keep smiling, turn your negative thoughts into positive ones, keep showing love, and keep praying because the painful memories keep coming back to your minds again and again . . . but, if you take the right steps it will become less painful. Then, change may take place. Isn't that what you want? You love these people and you want them to love God and be obedient. So, you have to show it with your response to them and show it to God by waiting on Him to work. I wonder what the Lord did when he looked at the Roman soldier put a nail to His hand and began to pound the nail through the Lord's hand into the cross. Physically, it was painful because He was a man; spiritually He probably had compassion upon the soldier. Somehow I think the Lord looked directly at the soldier while the soldier did his work. What did the Lord do when He looked down from the cross and saw the mob of people screaming at Him? I think you know where I am going by writing these things. Jesus had the bigger picture in view . . . not the present difficulty . . . He willingly suffered death to give life. You know what? This is a hard test, but it is a good one. Go through it and do well and you will learn SO much from the Lord. I am so impressed that God has given you this test right now at a young age. God must love you so much and He must have so many wonderful things planned for you in the future!

So, that was my advice. What do you think? Basically, it is returning good for evil, not evil for evil. I know what I am talking about. Some years ago I suffered a stunning attack from someone very close. I chose to keep quiet . . . kept my mouth shut! Boy, that was hard!

I will write a different blog entry on that one because it has to do more with conquering pride and not jumping into an argument to defend myself. Let me tell you, that is graduate level Christianity.

Eric

Meeting in Dunakeszi

2008-01-13T22:18:00.000+01:00

This church meets in a large home that is the office and ministry center of a Hungarian prison ministry. They house about 4 men who were in prison with problems with drugs or alcohol. They teach these men to work and help them fit back into society. Of course, they lead them to Christ as part of this process. Hard work to say the least! I met the leader of this mission in 1990 and a few times since then. He is Hungarian and I am very impressed with him. Their church is Brethren, but the people actually come from several denominations because there was no evangelical church in their town when they started the church in 1992.

We ate lunch with the leader and his family, also, with one of their workers and his family and the men that they minister to . . . great fellowship! There were about 35 to 40 in attendance jammed pack into the home. The air was becoming stale quickly, but they opened a window and this helped. They want me to come back to speak again either on a Sunday morning and/or a Friday night with they have what they call a Tea Club [young people's meeting].

On the way back to our home Lynne remarked that she really enjoyed this day and loved the fellowship with the people. I quickly agreed! It was a great day!

By the way, this was the 287th church that I have preached in here in Hungary since June 1989. Of course, I have spoken in some of these churches 10 to 12 times and in some of them only one time. So, there have been a lot of meetings here in Hungary where I have served.

Eric

Picking Up The Pace

2008-01-08T10:01:00.000+01:00

Dr. Wendell Kempton is now with the Lord as of January 6, 2008. I will miss him very much! He was a special man of God, very special. He was a great encourager . . . he encouraged me in the development of our new mission. Someone said that Wendell Kempton had at least 10,000 "best friends" because he made so many people feel like he was their best friend. Well, I was one of the 10,000 and I considered that a great honor.

My thoughts? There are several, but the one that impresses me the most is that I need to pick up the pace. What I mean is that I need to pick up the pace as an encourager. I encourage close to 40 people on a regular basis, but I need to pick up the pace! A great encourager has passed off the scene . . . others have to pick up where he left off.

Dr. Kempton was noted for many things . . . a great visionary, an enthusiastic evangelist, a great leader, a great husband, father and grandfather and much more. The thing that sticks out to me is what this great man did to encourage others. Oh, I will miss this! But, I have to give to others what I have learned from great people! Yes!

No, I am not a Wendell Kempton nor a Jack Wyrtzen that I wrote about yesterday! Goodness, no! Please do not misunderstand me. But, I do have a sphere of influence and I have to pick up the pace!

I hope that this encourages you!

Eric

Potential in People

2008-01-07T17:48:00.000+01:00

Years ago one of my mentors, Jack Wyrtzen, the founder of Word of Life, taught me a valuable lesson. We were traveling in my car in Florida from one meeting to Jack's next speaking engagement. Jack was telling me about someone when suddenly he looked at me and said, "Eric, accept a man for who he is and see him for what he can become."

Ding! I had learned to pay attention when Jack would share a principle. Ding! This was important! I got it! In fact, I heard him say it again a couple of years later. Ding! "It must be important or he would not have said it again," I thought.

So, what he taught me is this . . . accept a person for who he or she is right now . . . imperfect, immature, impatient like all the rest of us . . . then, "SEE" him or her for who they can become.

The first part is acceptance. This is so important because so many people yearn for acceptance. When I accept someone as they are it gives me a foundation for the next part. When I show a positive attitude toward someone it creates the potential for growth.

Secondly, I look for potential in people. I "see" or visualize what kind of person that they can become and what they can accomplish. When I do the second part I begin to take positive steps to encourage a person to become all that they can be. That is exciting!

I recall "visualizing" when a young man a number of years ago that I could foresee him becoming a great evangelist. He was stunned! He could hardly believe his ears. "Me? Are you serious?" he queried. You guessed it! He is doing that very thing today some 12 years later! Again, that is exciting!

Eric

Invited to Hungarian Homes

2008-01-05T23:03:00.000+01:00

Tonight we ate the delicious meal that Csapo Agi prepared! Wow! What a cook! Tamas married a wonderful young lady. Hey, she married a great guy! Tamas plays trumpet in our group, The Hungarian Brass. What a fine young couple!

Yesterday morning we ate breakfast in the home of Csikos Mihaly & Kati. That was good too! Mihaly is the director of Child Evangelism Fellowship in Hungary. It is great to see a national take over a ministry in his home country. Mihaly and Kati are doing a wonderful job! In both homes we had prayer together. That was special!

On Christmas eve, Dobos Bela and Ildiko came to our home to share the evening with us. Ildiko's mother, Barbarics Olga, came too. Good thing that she came because she cooked the meal for us and brought it to us! Wow! Hungarian fish soup . . . man alive! Talk about mouth watering, yummy good! Everything she made was great. What a treat for Lynne and me . . . tasting the delicious cooking of Hungarian ladies from three different age groups . . . all of them were fantastic!

It's so nice to visit with Hungarians in their homes and for them to come to our home.

Also, we had a missionary couple from Bucharest, Romania, Jack and Lori Friend. They are serving with Christian Camping International and helping encourage the development of youth camps in Romania. Jack's mother from California, Peggy, came with them along with their 2 little boys. We had great fellowship together. Later I will be speaking for Jack in one of his conferences training youth camp directors in Romania.

Lots of people time the last few days. Love it!

Eric

Re-Organizing My Office

2008-01-01T17:59:00.000+01:00

For the last four days I have been re-organizing my office . . . sorting, filing, tossing, making priority lists of projects, catching up on my email inbox, etc. I have re-organized my book shelves, too. I have a group of books that I want to read in 2008 and they are lined up ready for me to read. I have been doing other things, but the priority has been clearing my desk, clearing my filing cabinets and crossing off items on a To Do List. End-of-the-year finances has had my attention for the last week and this helps me to re-organize. Calendar planning for 2008 is another agenda item that has had my attention. 2009 has been worked on as well.

A few days before Christmas I re-organized my storage area. The new PA system has its place and I can get to it easily when I need it. Materials and supplies for Camp Monty 2008 were sorted and stored. Other ministry materials were sorted and stored away. Hmm-m-m, the attic . . . I have some ministry materials in the attic that I need to go through . . . I will go up there one morning this week . . .

I know what I want to do in 2008, but, the other day it seemed to me that what I need to do is to re-organize. This will help me to focus better on the needs of people. Good way to start 2008!

By the way, the same principle works in another way. I find that every so often it is good to do a personal inventory regarding my daily disciplines . . . evaluate and re-organize. Someone once said that "The Christian life is a life of many new beginnings." It is true! After a period of time you find that an area of your life is cluttered and needs to be evaluated and re-organized. The beginning of 2008 is a good time to do this. Let's see . . . update my prayer list . . . how many chapters a day to read in my Bible . . . I already have my book reading list done . . . reviewing my list of missionaries and charities to support . . . better evaluate my physical exercise program such as walking, sit-ups, back exercises . . . how much water to drink . . . juicing fruit and vegetables . . . whew, so much to re-organize!

Eric

Reaching Out To Our Neighbors

2007-12-27T17:24:00.000+01:00

Recently I was interviewed by Dr. Jimmy DeYoung who has a national radio program in the United States on 400+ radio stations. Jimmy was asking about Christmas in Hungary and how churches here recognize and honor Christ at Christmas time. Christmas has been secularized and commercialized by businesses and stores in Hungary which is a big change from 1990 when we moved here. Yet, Christians still honor Christ at Christmas time.

What Lynne and I did was to reach out to our neighbors on our street. We started this last year and invited them to come to our home again this year. On December 22, our home was full and each of us had our fill of tasty goodies that Lynne made ["finger foods" such as spicy meatballs, chicken wings, quesadillas, tortilla chips with salsa, cookies, banana bread, apple cake and more]. Yum!!

Since we had "finger foods" people either stood around the serving table munching and talking or filled their plates and moved to the living room where two or three would be in small groups talking. The conversations were excellent with people checking on each other to see how their health is or to learn how their families are doing or to discuss ideas and plans for the future.

As for me, I had two in-depth conversations on things of a spiritual nature with neighbors inquiring about what we are doing in our mission. Then, both of these people began talking about their spiritual needs or interests. The truth is, I did not force the conversation. They know who we are and what we stand for, so, they wanted to talk about their needs. Both conversations laid the foundation for future conversations that I want to have with these dear people. Hopefully, I will be able to hold at least one of these conversations in the next few days.

Oh yes, I had quite a fun conversation with four year old Fruzsina . . . what a personality! Talking with her made my day! What fun!

We have GREAT neighbors! Some are believers and some are not. Certainly, we know them much better after having them in our home this year and last year at Christmas time.

That's what we did right before Christmas . . . reach out to our neighbors on our street. They really seemed to enjoy this. We did!

Let's see, what can we organize as soon as the weather warms up? Grill some chicken and steak? Now, where is my calendar . . . ?

Eric

Outreach at a Nursing Home

2007-12-26T22:19:00.000+01:00

Lynne and I have ministered at Christmas time at a certain nursing home in Szentlorinckata, Hungary, for the last 12 years. These dear people tell us that this is the highlight of their year! Can you imagine this?

They have so little and the furnishings are simple and worn. One of the patients there used to cook for our youth camp in our former mission in Hungary. What a delight it was to see her again! I spent extra time with her to encourage her. She along with 70 others who live in this nursing home seemed to enjoy the music, the poetry [Hungarians love poetry!], the Bible reading and the message that I preached.

We gave them small gifts of a practical nature. They were stuffed into small Christmas stockings that were so colorful in green and red. They love the gifts!

Who received the greater blessing? Them? Us? Well, I think we did!! It touched our hearts! They are so special and so needy.

We will go back there next month to take pictures to them. Lynne always takes a picture of every patient and she makes both an individual copy for each person and a group photo that they hang in the entrance foyer. That brings plenty of smiles!!

Eric

Buying breakfast for a homeless man . . .

2007-12-17T22:28:00.000+01:00

Lynne and I were eating breakfast at McDonald's in a suburb of Budapest this week. Lynne noticed a homeless man who had come in from the cold. He was rubbing his legs to warm up his legs and to get his circulation going. He cleared one table putting the used napkins and breakfast sandwich papers into the trash can. He seemed to be a nice man. Surely there is a story about his life with its ups and downs.

I gave him a coffee that had been given to me because my breakfast was "late". That was easy to do . . . I absolutely dislike coffee and have no use for the drink. After a few minutes I felt impressed to buy him breakfast. He was grateful and a bit surprised. He was grateful for the hash browns and the orange juice, but, he stared at the scrambled eggs and English muffin . . . it appeared that he had never had this before. But, he gladly ate everything.

Both Lynne and I feel better . . . we hope that he does as well.

This week we go to a nursing home in Szentlorinckata, Hungary, to do a Christmas program and to do outreach. We have been to this senior adult home for the last 11 or 12 years. They tell us that this meeting is the highlight of their year! Can you imagine?! These dear people, about 70 of them, have so little. 8 or more are squeezed into one room and the furniture is very simple, very old and very inadequate. They have great needs both physically and spiritually. Yet, their eyes brighten and they smile when we come.

We will sing some Christmas carols with them and provide some solos and duets. A friend will join us and read a poem. Hungarians love poetry. They enjoy the Bible being read to them. They listen very respectfully as I preach a short message in Hungarian. Then, we will pass out some simple gifts for them for Christmas. I'll update you after we go there on Thursday.

Eric

The Value of Encouragement

2007-12-10T06:23:00.000+01:00

Perhaps you are like me and you can remember certain individuals who were great encouragers to you in your early years. What a blessing! Therefore, it is important for me to encourage others today. I need to pass on to others what I received earlier.

I find that it is important to reach out to others and not to focus on myself. Others need my words of encouragement, my positive influence, my smile, my listening ear, etc. It seems that others do better when I encourage them and act in a positive way with them. People are grateful for encouragement and seem to need it often.

How about you? Need an encouraging word? Need a listening ear? Need someone to believe in you and to encourage you? Sure you do! Then, think about others and give them the same! They will be grateful! And, it will come back to you in a positive way . . . you will be encouraged, too!

A smile almost always generates a smile a return. A kind word usually comes back to you with a kind word in return. A genuine compliment is welcomed and the one who receives it begins to think of something kind to say to show their appreciation.

So, I encourage you! Reach out to others with encouragement . . . and, you too, will be encouraged!

Eric

The Hungarian Brass Tour Comes To An End

2007-11-21T02:07:00.000+01:00

The whirlwind tour is over! 14 came to Christ in the three meetings where we were able to do evangelism. Many believers were encouraged in the meetings where the theme focused on helping Christians in their daily walk.

4,700+ miles were recorded as we traveled from Florida to Georgia, then to West Virginia, next to Maryland, on to North Carolina, and back down to Florida. We thank God for the safety in travel.

Laszlo Bakai, Janos Hamori and Tamas Csapo were outstanding trumpet players! Laszlo Gaal played the french horn so beautifully! Mark Alfoldy-Boruss joined me at trombone and he did an excellent job! Lynne played so well at the piano . . . it was a GREAT tour!

Possible future tours? Maybe Norway in September, 2008 . . . not confirmed yet . . . perhaps a return to the States in February 2009 based upon a conversation about playing for a church in Fayetteville, NC, at their missions conference to start our next tour. Stay tuned!

We are grateful for all who hosted us, fed us, took good care of us, encouraged us and more! Thank you! We are thankful for the opportunity to serve in 18 churches in 15 days!

Eric

Six Come to Christ: The Hungarian Brass Concert

2007-11-14T05:34:00.000+01:00

Great news! Six come to Christ at a concert by The Hungarian Brass in Shady Spring, West Virginia! In fact, the same number of people made similar decisions at a concert in Sebring, Florida, the previous Monday night. Seems like Monday night is THE night on this tour! 12 salvation decisions on two Monday nights!

We were in Huntington, WV, tonight . . . the people there were so gracious and responsive! Also, we stopped at The Operation Christmas Child project center in Huntington. This is a ministry of Samaritan's Purse. We were part of an assembly line to load gifts into "shoe boxes" destined for needy children all across the globe. Then, we loaded the shoe box gifts into larger boxes, then loaded them into a large tractor trailer. They will be taken to the process center in Charlotte, NC, then be distributed around the world. A TV crew stopped by to take some footage of The Hungarian Brass preparing these boxes. We also played a song for the TV crew and I was interviewed about our experiences of giving out these gifts to children in Hungary in previous years. So, we were on the evening news on Channel 3 on WSAZ TV in Huntington, WV.

Next, on the schedule . . . a long trip to College Park, Maryland for a concert at a church adjacent to the campus of the University of Maryland. Stay tuned!

Eric

The Hungarian Brass Tour continues . . .

2007-11-12T16:08:00.000+01:00

Bradley, West Virginia, then, Sophia, WV . . . then Midway WV . . . all three towns are close to Beckley WV. Last night we were in the state capitol, Charleston for a meeting at Bible Center Church. What a great time with these dear friends in each of these locations!

The one in Midway WV . . . this church, Hilltop Baptist, has relocated to the elementary school that I attended years ago. My, it was a trip down memory lane for me! My former playground is now the church parking area. My former classrooms for eight years are now Sunday School rooms or the church sanctuary. But, I am thrilled that this church is in Midway reaching out to people where I grew up.

Tonight, we will give a concert in Shady Spring, WV. Pastor George Smith has been a dear friend of ours for many years. It will be a privilege to preach in his church and for our men to play their instruments.

Tomorrow morning, we head to College Park, Maryland!

Eric

The Hungarian Brass Tour is Going Well!

2007-11-09T04:50:00.000+01:00

Sanford FL . . . Sebring FL [2 meetings] . . . Tallahassee FL . . . Lilburn GA . . . Flowery Branch GA . . . next on the schedule is Beckley WV.

One highlight is that six [6] came to Christ on Monday night in Sebring FL!! It was an open air meeting sponsored by a church plant in Sebring. We played down town at The Circle and there was a very good crowd. Six made decisions! Amazing! All 6 were adults.

Every meeting has gone very well. Our young brass team is doing a great job! Praise the Lord!

I have struggled with sinus problems and felt terrible, but I am starting to improve. I had to keep playing the trombone, preaching and traveling to keep up with the tour schedule. God has helped me! Now, Lynne is having problems with a cold, so, pray for this.

We have 6 meetings in Beckley, Charleston and Huntington, WV, over the next 5 days!

Eric

Personal News

2007-10-30T14:28:00.000+01:00

7 crowns, 2 bridges and 1 root canal . . . just think if I had not given up eating/drinking sugar 8 years ago! Last week I had the drilling for the crown work and one temporary bridge put in. Tomorrow I will have the final crown work done and the permanent bridge in. Whew! The Hungarian dentist, Dr. Sandor Harmati, is fantastic. Last week, he was drilling for one hour and 50 minutes on three of my teeth to do the crown work. That's a long time to be drilling!

I thought his watch band was starting to cut my forehead. When I could finally take a look I realized that he did not have a watch on, instead, it was his wrist bone pressing into my forehead. The dear man must have been working so hard! I asked him if he was becoming tired. "No, last week a woman from Great Britain was in here and had just one day to do 11 teeth. Unfortunately, these 11 teeth were in different places in her mouth. She could hardly talk afterwards!" he said with a laugh. Goodness!

By the way, the dentist was wearing a plastic shield that covered his entire face. I jokingly asked if he thought he was going to find asbestos in my mouth. He laughed and told me that he was taking out large portions of mercury from my old fillings. Yep, poisonous material from yesteryear. I felt better about the dental work knowing that they stuff was coming out of my mouth!

OK, how about some ministry news?

Sunday was great! I preached in three meetings in two churches and The Hungarian Brass was with me for the entire day. We played about 35 songs! Think about it, I played my trombone with this temporary crown piece on my upper front teeth applying pressure on the trombone mouthpiece. God certainly helped me! In fact, we had a practice on Saturday afternoon for two plus hours and I thought that I could hardly get through the first hour of practice. So much pain! But, the second hour went much better as the Lord helped me on Saturday. He helped again on Sunday. It was a LONG day! But, it was a good one! Really good! The people in these churches love music and they love preaching.

Pray for two teenagers who were in one of the meetings on Sunday. Both heard the Gospel and both carefully considered making a decision, but neither one made a decision for Christ. I could tell that they were struggling. Pray that they will make this decision this week!

Personal news and ministry news . . . they both go together because God uses imperfect people to accomplish His task in this world. That goes for me and for you as well!

Eric

The Hungarian Brass CD Will Soon Be Released!

2007-10-25T23:24:00.001+02:00

Sounds great! I cannot contain my excitement! The title of the latest CD release from The Hungarian Brass is called "Faithfulness". We are dedicating it in the memory of the co-founder of this group, Gaal Laszlo. Together, Laci and I started The Hungarian Brass in 1991. He was one of my dearest friends. Laci went to be with the Lord quite suddenly in September, 2006. It was totally unexpected as no one knew that he was suffering from heart disease. He is greatly missed by his wife, family and friends.

He was in our home just a few days before his death. Laci and I had a deep conversation that covered many topics. At the end of our talk we prayed together, first me, then Laci. When we stood I gave him a hug and told him how much I thought of him and how I valued our friendship. Let me tell you . . . I am SO glad that I did that . . . I had no idea that it was to be our last time talking and praying together . . .

So, based upon Matthew 25:23, "Well done, good and faithful servant," we honor our dear friend. "Faithfulness" is a term that describes Laci quite well! He was faithful to His Lord, to his wife, to his family, to his church, to his work and to his friends. His work ethic was unbelievable! His ability to play the french horn . . . unsurpassed, in my opinion.

Something that is very special to me is that Laci's son is playing the french horn in The Hungarian Brass. Laci Jr. is playing his instrument beautifully . . . his father would be so proud.

Despite the loss of our friend, our colleague and our mentor, The Hungarian Brass continues to serve in Europe and abroad. This weekend we will serve in two churches here in Hungary in Veresegyhaz and in Szada. Next month, we will be on tour in the United States. Check back for a schedule that I will post soon.

Eric

My Mother Was Released From The Hospital!

2007-10-24T16:53:00.001+02:00

Thank you for praying! The catherization revealed no blockages! It seems that the nuclear stress test that she had was abnormal, but, there is a problem with heart palpitations and arrhythmia, or more exactly, tachycardia. This will be monitored and future treatment will be determined. The good thing is that she was able to go home!

Can you imagine that this was the first time in her entire life that she was a patient in a hospital? She was born at home and never had any sickness to cause her to go to the hospital. That is quite unusual for a woman in her 70s!

Once again, thanks for praying!

Eric

Pray for my Mother

2007-10-21T13:34:00.000+02:00

My mother, Glenna Murphy, is headed to the emergency room right now. She failed a stress test for her heart, so, she needs to go to a specialist for heart treatment in Charleston, West Virginia. First, she will have a catherization to determine how much blockage there is in her arteries. Then, they will determine what to do based upon the percentage of blockage. I am back in Hungary as of a couple of hours ago. So, you can imagine that we are all concerned and seeking the Lord's help. Please pray for my mother!

Eric

Ministry in Jupiter FL

2007-10-16T13:52:00.000+02:00

Starting with an early breakfast appointment with two key leaders from Grace Immanuel Bible Church, Jupiter, Florida, Sunday, October 14, was a full day! Lynne and I ministered in two adult Sunday School classes at 9 AM & 10:45 AM. These dear friends are praying for us and have a vital interest in missions around the world. How encouraging! We had lunch with Pastor Jerry Wragg and Bob Whitney, who oversees, the Expositors Seminary. They, along with their wives, treated us to a delicious Sunday dinner.

We had a short rest before meeting with the missions committee at 4 PM to give a report. One hour later we departed for ministry at Beacon Baptist Church in the same city. Pastor Jim Blalock welcomed us . . . what a great meeting they we enjoyed there at Beacon. The people were very responsive to the ministry of the Word as I spoke! One interesting note is that I had a deep impression from God to change the conclusion to my message. I found out after the service when I learned that there was a young man in the meeting who is struggling. He is staying with a relative in Jupiter right now and this relative shared with us how this message was just what he needed. Hopefully, he will respond in a positive fashion.

These two churches have faithfully supported us for more than 26 years! What a joy it was to see so many friends again!

And, we are grateful to Allen and Sandy Harrison for providing lodging for us while we were in the Jupiter area. We are blessed!

Eric

Missions Conference in Albuquerque: Excellent!

2007-10-09T15:54:00.000+02:00

The missions conference at the Hoffmantown Church was excellent! The two services on Sunday morning were joined together in one main service focusing on home missions and foreign missions. The focus on home missions highlighted ministry in Mississippi following the devastation of Katrina. Then, the focus on missions around the world was on a ministry in Mozambique to a tribe of 1.7 million people of whom the majority cannot read. Both presentations were well done and the messages were fantastic!

We were hosted by our friends, Dave and Charlotte Cauwels. Dave is an elder in the church. This couple has a great love for the Lord. What a joy it was for us to be in their home. Thanks Dave and Charlotte!

October 2007 Calendar

2007-10-05T21:58:00.000+02:00

OCTOBER 2007

3-7 Missions Conference at the Hoffmantown Church in Albuquerque, New Mexico
8 Travel to Orlando, Florida
9 Drive to Jupiter, Florida
10-13 Eric in a training meeting in Delray Beach, Florida
14 Ministry at Grace Immanuel Bible Church and at Beacon Baptist Church in Jupiter, FL
15-19 Visiting supporters, doctor appointments in Orlando
20 Return to Budapest
23 or 30 Planning meeting for future camp ministry in Slovakia
28 The Hungarian Brass at churches in Veresegyhaz and Szada, Hungary

Albuquerque: Missions Conference

2007-10-05T01:50:00.000+02:00

Pastor Wayne Barber is a dear friend. He pastors the Hoffmantown Church in Albuquerque, New Mexico, where Lynne and I are attending their annual missions conference. This is a great conference under the leadership of the missions pastor, Curtis Brickley. We are staying in the home of Dave and Charlotte Cauwels. Dave is an elder in the church and part of his charge is to oversee the missions outreach of the church. What a dear couple!

Coming up on Saturday is the world's largest hot air balloon festival here in Albuquerque. The sky will be full of hot air balloons and it will be a treat to see this.

Great Bible teaching, preaching and fellowship here! What a treat!

Eric

Prayer Needs

2007-10-01T22:52:00.000+02:00

Prayer Needs

--Pray for The Hungarian Brass as we finish a recording for a new CD this month.

--Lynne's last treatment for Multiple Sclerosis in Germany was September 20-23, 2007. Pray as the German doctor is treating six areas that the MS has affected in Lynne's body. There is progress in two of these areas. The doctor told us recently that he thinks that the downward regression of the disease has finally been stabilized! This is big news for us! She is not better, but it means that she is not becoming worse! It takes about 6 to 8 weeks to see how much the recent treatment has helped Lynne.

--Pray that the discipleship done in Montenegro in September will help those who received Christ this summer in camp. We hope to go back in March to do more follow-up and make preparations for Camp Monty 2008.

--Plans for conducting youth camps in Montenegro next summer are being made. We need basketball coaches and players and English language teachers at Camp Monty 2008, July 21-25, 2008. Pray as we may have a second week in the mountains, July 28-August 2, 2008. Read the article on the website under Projects/Ministry for more information.

--That God would give direction regarding the youth camp at Lucatin, Slovakia, near Banska Bystrica. This camp was formerly used by the communists for youth camps. There have been some complications, so, we need wisdom to find the next step to take to enter into a relationship to use this facility. What great potential is there! Pray for an important
meeting on either October 23 or 30.

--Work Teams are needed to renovate a four story conference center in the High Tatry Mountains in Slovakia at Rackova Dolina. We need work teams to install sheet rock ceilings and do painting and trim work in March and April, 2008! Contact me right away at ericmurphy_life@hotmail.com or ericwmurphy@gmail.com to register a team or to come as an individual worker.

Eric

Hungarian Brass in Vacegres

2007-09-30T21:24:00.000+02:00

We have two new players in the Hungarian Brass. The trumpet player is awesome! He is an incredible trumpet player! His name is Janos Hamori. In English, Janos means John. The trombonist is very, very good, too. Mark Alfoldi-Boruss is his name. Mark did not have the benefit of much practice with us before he played in the concert today. We practiced for 90 minutes before the concert. Janos played with us earlier this month when we did the recording for our new CD. But, let me tell you, these two young men are so good that they can sightread the music and play like they have played it dozens of times.

Am I excited? Better believe it! Wow!

We are missing one of our trombonists for six months, Krisztian Csapo. He is working on a cruise ship to earn money so he can get married next August. He is an incredible trombonist, so, we really miss him. But, this group that we have right now is really good. Praise the Lord!

Lynne is excited, too! She really enjoys working with these young men and they become like sons to her.

The church in Vacegres loves, loves, loves music! We played 14 songs and I sang two solos. They would have gladly stayed for more. The pastor, Endre Varady, is a fine young pastor. By the way, he and his wife have a 7 day old daughter and they are thrilled.

I spoke to the congregation on Judges 11:29 where Jephthah was filled with the Spirit and led the nation at a critical time in war. Jephthah suffered much in his childhood and had trouble dealing with his past. After he prayed, giving his problems to God, Jephthah was a changed man. This message speaks to a needy world today. Two people raised their hands in the meeting responding to the message.

What a great day!

Eric

Lynne Finished Her MS Treatment

2007-09-25T19:54:00.000+02:00

Lynne finished her MS treatment in Germany. So far, so good! She has had a better response to this treatment than the last one that she had in May of this year. The doctor changed the treatment to focus on other areas of her body where the MS has been affecting her condition. Both of us were glad to hear this. If you want more details please feel to write me at ericmurphy_life@hotmail.com or ericwmurphy@gmail.com and I will gladly give you more information.

The main thing right now is that she has to wait six to eight weeks to see how she will respond to the treatment. Your prayers for this would be appreciated.

At the present time, three days after the treatment, she has slight increase in her energy level which is very important. MS patients suffer greatly from fatigue.

So far, so good!

Eric

An Anniversary of Sorts

2007-09-25T19:47:00.000+02:00

Saturday, September 22, marked an anniversary of sorts. Eight years! Yes, 8 years has passed since I last ate sugar! Can you believe it? It's true! No desserts, no sweets, no Coke or Pepsi, etc. In fact, I have not drank diet drinks such as Pepsi Maxx or Diet Coke for the last 14 months.

When we were in Germany for Lynne's treatment we had a dinner with a man that has not eaten processed foods for the last five years. No processed foods!

This sort of trumped my no sugar story . . .

Oh well!

Eric

In Germany

2007-09-21T14:48:00.000+02:00

Lynne met the doctor today regarding her treatment for MS. She receives the treatment tomorrow, so, please pray that it will help her. These treatments over the past five years have slowed down the progress or worsening of the disease. I will keep you posted on her response to the treatment.

The drive from Montenegro to Germany (south of Frankfurt) is a long journey! We have now traveled about 3,200 kilometers or something around 1,700 miles. This includes our trip to Montenegro, then to Germany. We still have the 12 hour drive back to Budapest after the treatment or another 1,000 KM. Next time we will fly to Montenegro! $400 per person round trip from Budapest to Montenegro. It takes about 100 minutes to fly there! It takes me 16 hours to drive there . . .

We have a Brass Tour coming up in November . . . details will be published on the blog soon.

Also, we are in the mixing process of our Hungarian Brass CD. Sounds great so far!! What a blessing it is for me to play the trombone with these young men! Lynne really enjoys accompanying us with the piano.

So, here we are in Edenkoben, Germany, for Lynne's treatment. It is beautiful here right now! The grape vines are loaded with grapes. The treatment facility is located near the vineyards. I am working on some projects right now. I will enjoy a long hike tomorrow, then, work on the projects that will help us in preparation for more ministry.

God bless!

Eric

Sept. 16 Church Meetings in Montenegro

2007-09-16T23:14:00.000+02:00

This morning I spoke at the church in Niksic. There were 17 in attendance. My text was from Judges 11 where Jephthah suffered from rejection. His response was negative as he formed a gang that raided the countryside. But, he learned skills as a warrior that helped him later. When the Ammonites gathered for war against the Gileadites [Jephthah's father was Gilead] Jephthah was called upon to help. His response reflected the pain that he had suffered when his brothers had cast him out of the family years before because Jephthah was the son of an adulterous relationship that Gilead had with a harlot. "You rejected me before, why do you call upon me now?" But, he prayed to God as he received instruction to accept this task. So, he told them that he would lead them in the battle IF they accepted him as their leader. Jephthah was a changed man after this time of prayer. Our first response to rejection is usually not a spiritual reaction and this was the case with Jephthah. But, he changed when he prayed to God! God gave Jephthah a great victory over the Ammonites. Do you know that he is listed as one of the heroes of faith in Hebrews 11:32? That says a lot!

Some people told me that this message was just for them and that it was a great help. God is at work!

We had lunch with a church planter, Eric Gruetzmacher, who is attempting to plant a church on the coast of Montenegro at Herceg Novi. A young couple, Brian and Sarah, joined us for lunch. They are on a survey trip considering the possibility of joining Eric. This was encouraging! Montenegro needs 50 church planters now! How about 75? There are only 3 evangelical churches in the country with about 127 believers. There are 4 or 5 church planters here in the country including Eric. Pray for more church planters!

Tonight I preached in Podgorica, the capital city, to about 30 people. They are so responsive! The theme was on Brokenness from Leviticus 6:21. Read the verse and note that the grain offering was broken into pieces as it was offered to God. God breaks us . . . our pride, our self-will, selfishness, anger, etc. . . . through difficult experiences. This is done with love. Yet, it is difficult for us nonetheless. "Broken" believers are then a sweet smelling aroma to God. Our pride and arrogance are totally opposite and not sweet smelling. Once again, several people told me that this message was just for them and expressed their appreciation. It is so interesting to watch the Word of God have an effect upon people and their personal lives.

Do these messages have meaning for you? They do for me!

Tomorrow, God willing, we begin the travel to Germany for Lynne's treatment for MS. It will be a long journey!

Eric

Montenegro: What is happening?

2007-09-16T09:26:00.000+02:00

It's beautiful here right now in Montenegro. The weather is very nice and the mountains are majestic. The people have been very kind to us and we have enjoyed some great conversations.

Last night I spent a long time with a teenage basketball player and his father. The boy came to camp this summer toward the end of camp. It was an excellent conversation as I learn more about Montenegro and its people.

I met about 15 new teenage friends at the basketball court. They want to practice their English and those who don't know English desperately wait for translation from their friends as they want to keep up with the conversation. Next to me were 2 teens who came to Camp Monty and they willingly told the others about camp. The others quickly wanted to know if we are coming back next summer to have another camp. Yes! They cheered! It was a special moment!

Another thing happened only minutes earlier when I first came to the basketball court. Two guys around 25 or so saw me come onto the court and they kicked a soccer ball [this court is used for several different sports and usually more than one sport is going on at any given time] high in the air so it would land very close to me. Then, one of them gave a vulgar hand gesture. Two of our campers immediately ran over to them telling them who I am. I do not know what they said. But, the older guys acknowledged this information and said, "Sorry," waving sheepishly to me. What a change! That was interesting!

One difficulty here right now is a water ration. The water is on only twice a day for short periods of time. No showers for four days. Oh me! Well, one more day here and we start heading to Germany for Lynne's MS treatment. We will get a shower on the way . . . oh me!

Speaking in two churches today here in Montenegro. More about this later!

Eric

In Montenegro!

2007-09-14T21:29:00.000+02:00

Perhaps you remember the incident at the basketball court this summer where a lady screamed at me calling me a sect. She wadded up the camp flyer and crammed it down my shirt. Then, her friend spit at me. That was right before camp started! Wow! Well, I went back to the same ball court last night and tonight . . . without incident.

We are here to do follow-up on some of the campers who made decisions at Camp Monty 2007. So far, I have met with three of them and the response was very good. I will speak in the church here in Niksic on Sunday morning. Tonight I invited these campers and other young people who were at the ball court to come to listen to me speak. Pray for this!

Today, Lynne and I visited people at the hotel where we had the camp and we were warmly greeted with big smiles. We also visited the man who oversees the gymnasium where we had the basketball training. I told him that we plan to come back next July . . . big smile and a firm handshake. He was glad to hear this.

Also, I bumped into a man whose son was playing at another basketball court that we visited this summer. He was so glad to see me and was very happy that I had come back to his city. One of our basketball coaches, Rob Oppedisano, visited this man and his family in his home the day after camp ended. This Montenegro man was so grateful for this visit because Rob was giving personalized instruction to this man's son who is an excellent young basketball player. This young player has NBA potential if he can grow a few more inches. He came to our camp toward the end of the week.

Tomorrow, more visits with these young people and another trip to the ball court, actually, to both ball courts that I have mentioned.

Sunday . . . I speak two times . . . once in Niksic and once in Podgorica, the capital city. Can't wait!

Heading to Montenegro

2007-09-11T22:59:00.000+02:00

This summer 7 young people made decisions for Christ. 5 of them were boy between the ages of 16 and 26. 2 were young girls 7 and 12. Tomorrow Lynne and I are traveling down to Montenegro to do follow-up and to encourage these new believers. Also, there are a few others who seem to be interested in having a relationship with Christ.

During camp in August I talked with one young man who is a leader at the basketball court where we visited each night for nine days. I told him that he seems to have an interest in Christ, but, that he is running from this. He speaks English and he said, "Really, well, watch me run right now!" And, he did! He literally ran away from me. :) I saw him the next day and I told him that we are coming back in September. His response was mixed in that he admits he is "running away", but that he is glad that we are coming back.

In fact, I heard from our granddaughter [who is using "messenger" to keep up contact with many of the campers and workers] that the young people there are talking about us coming back! That is super!

So, I will go back to this basketball court and hang out when the 30 to 55 young people who show up each evening. At least 6 of the converts from camp will be there. The court is illuminated and I usually stay there for about 2 to 2 1/2 hours from about 8 PM to 10:30 PM building relationships. Pray for this!

We will try to organize pizza at the church or somewhere in order to get the campers together for fellowship. We need to build bridges from the church to these young people. I will speak to them to encourage them in their faith for the new believers and to remind the others how to start a relationship with Christ.

Check back for another Montenegro report in a couple of days.

Eric

Youth Camp in Slovakia--Stay Tuned!!

2007-09-09T20:53:00.000+02:00

Friday was a long-g-g day!! Whew! I drove from Budapest to Bratislava to meet with Tomas Kriska, President of the Baptist Union in Slovakia. Tomas is a dear friend and I have been helping him with the renovation at Rackova Dolina, at a conference center, in Slovakia. I am glad to help with this because there needs to be a top quality Christian conference center in that country to reach out to families and to churches and their leaders. But, there needs to be a youth camp in Slovakia and this desire has been on my heart for three years.

The drive to Banska Bystrica gave us a couple of hours to talk. It was a profitable time together. Tomas is a man who has a heart for God and we have great fellowship together.

Banska Bystrica is centrally located in Slovakia nestled in the Tatra Mountains. It is a ski center as well as a great place for hiking in warmer weather.

We met with two other men to discuss the development of a youth camp near there. This conversation was timely and orchestrated by God. It was a special moment! In my 18 years in Hungary and Eastern Europe I have had several "special moments" that produce great results. God is at work!

The next step is another meeting to be held there on October 23 or 30 with a group of leaders from several denominations. I think it is important to cast a vision and ask others to join together to form an association to bring about a youth camp.

There is a camp property and the owner attended the meeting on Friday. He has a great desire to reach young people through a youth camp. He has asked for my leadership to develop this youth camp. So, I am counting on our supporters and friends to pray for Lynne and me.

The drive back home, three hours, gave me time to reflect and make plans. Lynne and I looked at the potential camp site two years ago and our hearts were racing! A series of events had us waiting and praying. Now, it seems that the Lord is bringing the situation around to involve others who have a burden for a Christian youth camp in Slovakia. The timing seems "right" now.

Stay tuned! I will keep you posted!

Eric

Romanian Invasion and an Engagement

2007-09-09T20:38:00.000+02:00

The "Romanian Invasion" is an affectionate name that I use to call a group of young adults from Bucharest. Five of them "invaded" our home this weekend. These young people, 4 of them, graduated from the Bible School that I founded in our previous ministry here in Hungary. Some of them also helped us in the youth camp that I founded. What a joy it was to have them in our home again!

Engagement: The plan was to go sightseeing around Budapest on Saturday afternoon with the final place being a visit to the Citadella which overlooks the Danube River and Budapest. Yes, there is a gorgeous view from that site. The rest of us went one direction while Adrienn and Nikoleta went up to the massive statue near the fortress at the Citadella. Adrienn [Ady] popped the question and she was surprised! But, she had the right answer--YES!! They are planning a wedding for next March.

I spent time talking with the three young men, Csika, George and Ady while Lynne spent time with the two young ladies, Ana and Nikoleta. Each of them has a great passion for ministry and they have great potential. In fact, Csika and Ana Florin were married this summer one week before Camp Monty in Montenegro and they showed up with seven other Romanian Invaders to help us in the youth camp there! Incredible!

Eric

Blogging Again!

2007-09-05T10:32:00.000+02:00

In August 2005 I wrote my first blog. Somehow, I "lost" it. Then, I uploaded another posting. Then, I had trouble finding my blog site. Well, I found it today! It seems that blogging is quite important today as a way to communicate. Bear with me as I experiment with adding photos and video. I want my friends, partners and family to have more information and to learn more about what Lynne and I are doing in Eastern Europe.

So, I will be sharing "Updates", prayer requests, showing you pictures and videos as well as sharing my thoughts.

Here is a new prayer request: I had a great meeting yesterday in Bratislava, Slovakia. From this meeting we organized a larger meeting in Banska Bystrica, Slovakia set for this Friday at 3 PM to discuss the development of a youth camp in Slovakia. I am quite interested and quite burdened about this need. Please pray!

If you would like to read the latest Eric Murphy Update go to www.lifeimpactforeternity.org to see what happened in Montenegro. We had an incredible youth camp there! Incredible! 7 came to Christ . . . when you consider that there are about 120 Christians in the entire country . . . seven is a huge number . . . a 5.8% increase in the number of believers.

Check back for my next posting!

Eric

Why "Update"?

2005-08-23T22:43:00.000+02:00

Today, I took a trip down memory lane. I went through my files that dated back to 1978 reading articles that I had written and promotional pieces that I had spent hours doing what used to be called layout work.

Certain words jumped out at me! One of them was my usage of the word, "Update"! For the last eight years or so I have been sending an email Update to quite a number of people. So, at the beginning of my work day I was looking at old layout sheets featuring events that I was promoting in the 70s and 80s and now I have "blogged" on . . . still using the word, "Update".

We have come a long ways! BLOG???

Well, if you are interested I will update you from my personal blog!

ERIC